i know what your thinking. this is soo easy. but its not. i already know that she likes me but we've never talked at all. not even once. i want to ask her out, but i dont know what to say. it would be awkward. so can anyone help me?
2006-10-17 14:55:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just simple ask, "would you like to hang out sometime?" If she says yes, suggest a fun place during a weekend day. That way you get to laugh and be yourselves in a no pressure situation.
There are no other shortcuts. No notes. No whispering.
The key thing is that you strike while the iron is hot, otherwise someone will beat you to it.
2006-10-17 14:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean by "its not easy" because it was sort of difficult for me to ask out my current girlfriend, the things you have to remember are 1) be vague on the when and where part of it, and 2) she wont think of it as weird or awkward because she already likes you.
as for when to ask her out, start up a conversation with her (say hello and give her a small compliment and ask some questions) then near the end of the conversation (just before you leave) just say "I was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime"
2006-10-17 15:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by Davy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say homie i have the SAME exact problem you have and you're right its NOT easy i mean some people make it look easy but naw it ain't but umm i would just go up to her and just ask "how's it goin?" or like "whats up" you know simple stuff she's a person just like you um and if the conversation goes well then just ask her to the movies or somethin. Believe me you will be nervous but you will be so glad that you did it on tha real man go for it this could be your big chance! good luck homes ♥
2006-10-17 14:59:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out. dont hold back. be honnest and tell her how u feel. if your honnest u have nothing to loose. sure it might be awkward but if u dont give it a try u will never know if it could work. and if u dont try than you will leave yourself wondering what could have happend. just go to her and just ask her out, in fact if u just come out and say it, sure it might feel awkward but u would feel glad that u at least tried.
hope i helped
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good luck
2006-10-17 15:14:31 · answer #4 · answered by Scarlet5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask a friend to ask her out for you. Thats what I do all the time. My last boyfriend, I never talked to him, you will be able to think up of something to talk about with her, if she says yes
2006-10-17 15:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by blueshmugirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, the ingredient is calling women out spontainiously isnt the superb theory. Its greater constructive to get to comprehend her, make small talk and flirt slightly. in case you in no way spoke to her she would be in a position to maximum probable reject her so get to comprehend her slightly first. 2d tip, in no way ask somebody out around every person else. be sure its basically the two certainly one of you, every person greater desirable than which will basically rigidity her to the two say definite or no. third tip, the action pictures is an awful place to take somebody to a date. that's impersonal, high priced, and uninteresting. that's a undemanding place to realize this in spite of the undeniable fact that that's rather undesirable and maximum probable you wouldnt get a 2d date. i comprehend it sounds extraordinary because of the fact society often portrays the action pictures because of the fact the superb place to this factor yet its greater constructive to do someplace the place the two certainly one of you could talk. yet another undemanding relationship place is a resturant it is likewise very undesirable because of the fact the two certainly one of you're too busy eating to talk and lower back high priced. So, p.c. a place the place the two certainly one of you will be on my own and talk. attempt to be imaginative in a date spot and marvel her with a place that could make her p.c. to circulate on a 2d date. final tip, superb of success with the ladies, that's a tedious and long activity to grasp in spite of the undeniable fact that that's one you will use for something of your life. If theres any project which would be greater mandatory on your life which you learn in severe college, its relationship. solid success=)
2016-12-26 22:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a time, place and backup time place ready. Pick a situation/mood that will make her comfortable so that she is more likely to accept. If you haven't talked before, suggest something really casual like lunch so that you can talk.
2006-10-17 14:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by GreenManorite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just politely talk to her. start a conversation and then ask for ex. hey i was wondering if you would like to mabey hang out some time or go see a movie. if she says no, her loss if she says yes everyones happy
2006-10-17 14:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by joner_u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i'm a girl i should now that when i like a guy and he likes me i hate the waiting it's like torture!!! so whatever ur feeling she is probaly feeling it twice as bad .call her start a small conversation about wat u did today but don' t miss the piont trie not to stall.but don't just blurt it and then hang up.hope this helps!
2006-10-17 15:05:30 · answer #9 · answered by smarty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure to have a fallback plan for when she says no. I recommend whiskey.
2006-10-17 15:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋