Go in the basement and listen to my CD's and have a few beers. ****! It is not like I want to skrew some other woman and do drungs! Why is my wife so mean to me? I do dishes, cook, do wash, and give her flowers and cards. I just want 2 hours to listen to music in the basement................................
2006-10-17 14:53:53 · 8 answers · asked by irish_jimmy 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Has she ever wanted to come down with you? Why don't you ask her to join you a few times and maybe by then she will know that is all you want to do. How about starting off with.... who knows, but not two hours straight! Then build it up to your two hours...or, give me the flowers, cards, cook, wash, and do the dishes...I'll happily give you the two hour break...
2006-10-17 15:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by ttwobearsplusone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, ya'll seriously need to talk about giving each other space. Do you bring in all the income or is she the one working? You seem like you help her alot and she should be proud your doing that. Sit her down and explain to her that you just want some quality time to be by yourself. If you don't, I see a divorce in the future for ya'll.
2006-10-17 17:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by Perfectly Insane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how many years have you been doing these two hour thingy. i believe she do other chores too beside her job.I think she need your attention. some time just sit and talks is a nice thing to do. flowers don't mean a thing if life has no meaning
2006-10-17 15:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by booyah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i know you love your wife i mean look at what all you're doing but have tou just stopped and tried a little tenderness. Maybe she is in a place where at this stage of you relationship/marriange she desire only you...
"oh she may be weary but young girls they do get weary wearing that same old shaggy dress ya ya but when she gets weary try a little tenderness ya ya you know she's waiting just anticipating for a thing that she'll never never never never possess but while shes there waiting try a little tenderness (thats all you gotta do)it's not just sentimental no no no she had her grief and care but her soft words they all spoke so gentle ya it makes it easier easier to bang ya you wont regret no no young girls they dont forget it love is their own happiness ya ya ya but it's all so easy all you gotta do is try try a little tenderness ya all you gotta do youre thang hold her hand you wanna squeeze her dont tease her never leave her get to her got got try a little tenderness ya ya you gotta nobody love her man you got to squeeze her dont tease her never leave you gotta own her lover so try a little tenderness ya ya you gotta rub her gentleness dont lose her no no you gotta love her tease her dont squeeze her gotta try her na na na try a try a little tenderness ya watch it you gotta know what to do man take this advice you gotta ya.... " (otis redding)
2006-10-17 15:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by Cairo St. James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made the mistake of getting married. Wives are not like normal women. They are mean and selfish and cruel. You are hers now. You do what she wants.You do not question. You do not argue. You just keep giving. You will get nothing back in return.
2006-10-17 15:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea but is is every day? Glad you arent doing drungs, I havent tried those yet :)
2006-10-17 14:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Mark P. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk it out. Try to explai n you just want to hang out by yourself. Maybe you should ask her about her going to one of her friends places, or just go online. If it's a BIG problem with alot things, maybe consciling, but I'm just thinking of a few folks I knew. Talk it out.
2006-10-17 15:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by Artsy 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's a *****,.. or maybe have a mood disorder,, why cant she appreciate what youre doing?? your wife is the one who should do the house chores
2006-10-17 14:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by gillette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋