How come guys are losing their balls?

Question

Strange to see all these questions about young girls wanting to express/confess their love for boys. I understand equal rights, and girls should voice their thoughts... but all these girls asking guys out...soon the girls are going to be the housewives, bread winners and moms.

Answer 1

Where have you been? This is happening now. Guys (not all, but many) really have sort of shunned any responsibility they used to have. Now, it's okay for a guy at 21, not to have a job...but to have 3 kids that they don't pay child support for. Many will SWEAR birth control is the girl's responsibility, and if she gets pregnant...think they shouldn't pay support or be involved in the child's life, because they didn't want it in the first place.

Guys USED to be ashamed to be without a job, and if they fathered a child, they shared the responsibility because it was not acceptable to abandon that child. Women's lib did some of this by telling society that we could do anything a man could do. That's true...but men started allowing women to do that, and when they saw that they could...men figured they didn't need to do ANYTHING anymore.

Don't get me wrong. There are STILL real men out there who have their dignity and pride and wouldn't dream of becoming such a slug, but many of the younger ones are perfectly happy to look out for #1.

Guys will claim it's because women scream sexual discrimination or rape if they kiss them good night, or hold a door for them. That's not true. A REAL man would have enough respect for a woman, not to grope her...and most women LIKE a guy to show some manners. A kiss isn't harassment and holding a door is only discrimination if you're living in the 60's. This isn't about how a guy treats you at the prom, though. This 'loss of balls' is about how guys are much more likely these days, to excuse their own irresponsibility....claiming they have no responsibility or accountability in a relationship.

Answer 2

Well women have come a long way in this world and more of them are now making better choices for themselves.More and more of you are beginning to understand that you can work,play,live longer and better without a man.You now are understanding a man is a want not a need so you can be the bread winner,mothers,control your own money,spend it as well.I myself have always said i need a woman for only one thing,sex,but women thought they had to have a man to fix there cars,pay bills,fix things around the house and etc.I believe it's cause they thought they couldn't do it by themselves,but we see they not only can but prefer to so they don't have to put up with a man.Now all of this is by choice to all the women who do and some because they were forced to,but are doing it and doing it just fine.So now women are now saying the same as most men,i only need a man for one thing,and when i do it's a want,not a need.If women can have a family and work to keep them together,this is a strong woman and women have always had the ability to be leaders and are now proving it to the world.So i say hats off to all of you strong women and keep up the good work!

Answer 3

What do you expect when you make everything masculine evil??? Ask a girl out... Sexual Harrassment... Compliment a girl on her dress.. Sexual Harrassment... Smile at a girl... Sexual Harrassment...

Good looking guy, treats a girl scum, has sex with her.. Leaves her for another girl... Does she blame this punk? No, she says, "all men are the same... They all are after only one thing from a girl.."

Then some guy works up the nerve to ask this girl out... Rather than put all this anger on the guy who caused the pain... She unleashes it on this nice guy... "What do I look like gutter trash to you?" "No, I just thought you might like to... " "Oh, have sex with you, YOU WISH..." "Umm, I wouldn't..." "Oh right, I've heard it all, you men are all the same!!!"

The guy walks away saying, "I'm never doing that again..."

Then some hot studly type comes up to her... "Huh uh, Hi I'm Tiffany...." "Hey babe, where are your wings cause you look like you got a heavenly body???" "Oh, you're cute!!!" "You know you remind me of my first wife..." "How many times have you been married?" "You'd be my first..." "Oh, ha ha ha, you're so funny..." "So you wanna go to my place?" "OKAY!!!"

"He had sex with me and won't return my calls!!!! Men are all the same!!!"

Answer 4

I thought women were already the housewives, breadwinners, and moms. From my own experience, my husband only does housework when ever my mother is visiting from out of town... like this weekend.

Sometimes I'll tell him she's coming (even though she isn't) just so he'll get off his butt and help around the house.

Answer 5

Girls are more likely to come to a forum like this

Many good guys are less and less comfortable taking the lead in relationships because they are used to girls taking the lead or have gotten burnt by taking the lead in the past.

Guys aren't in a huge hurry to get places in a relationship. Girls almost always are quicker to become emotionally attached, so this is kind normal.

Answer 6

What's your point?
Are you living out some sort of "independent macho women" life b/c you're too scared to have your own set of woman balls?

I love cooking, I love cleaning my own home and having children.
I love expressing myself thru art, music, food and more. I work & support my family on my part and I speak up when I need and feel I want to.
I'm proud of being the housewife/ working women who knows who she is and her man does too b/c he is a true man who can see it.

How about you madam?

Answer 7

Because if we try to act like men, we get our heads chewed off or end up charged for sexual harrassment, Apparently treating you like ladies is insulting now a days, Look at my question about the world killing us gentlemen, and maybe you'll understand.

Answer 8

"...soon the girls are going to be the housewives, bread winners and moms."
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Hey, that sounds good to me. It would make my life easier.

Answer 9

Hmmm...very good point/question. I am not sure its so much that guys are losing their balls, but girls are being way more aggressive than they used to.

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