I really like this girl at my school and we talk and stuff and I wanted to know how to ask her out cuz im kinda shy.
2006-10-17 14:43:29 · 18 answers · asked by rhapmaster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself. If you really like her, go up and be bold! You seriously CAN do it! Just go up to her and calmly explain that you really like her and you think she's pretty, friendly, etc and you would like to ask her out. She will probably be completely flattered and will say yes! All girls like a guy who explain his feelings and be brave enough to go up to them. You'll be fine. If you really are shy, practice the words you'll say to her in the mirror. Then, go up to her for real. Be yourself, at all costs!! Don't be anyone you aren't, or she'll sense it and be turned off. BE YOURSELF!! You will be fine!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good luck dude
2006-10-17 14:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Misscheerios2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, well I don't agree with dublin boy cause I had a guy have a friend ask me out. Most times that shows a girl that you're so shy you can't do anything on your own. Not only is it lessening our chances with her, it is harming your oh-so-important male ego! I would send her a letter and make it a sort of game by giving her clues as to who you are. See if she gets it right. ; ^D Or you could just write her a letter. I would go with the game idea though cause it will show her you like to have fun!
2006-10-17 21:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by macaan87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gauge her interest first by introducing a bit of flirting into your contact... maybe she is just as shy as you. Perhaps ask for her email address and ask her that way. Or just come out with it! Either way, if you can tell she's interested too it will make it a lot easier to ask her out. Life's too short not to go for it. Good luck!
2006-10-17 21:48:12 · answer #3 · answered by soulgirl76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your shy just build your confidence. Go just talk 2 a girl you feel ok with. Just practice talking to girls and learn not to be shy and then go ask her out!
2006-10-17 21:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by DUH! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of something fun to do this weekend, and tell her about it. Then ask her if she wants to come. If you feel weird about going on a date with her alone, try to set up a group thing with your friends and her friends. Go to an amusement park or something. Or skiing if you are in a cold climate.
2006-10-17 21:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by qwertyqwerty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try having a group of friends go to a movie and ask her to tag along, make sure you sit next to her and then the next time just ask her to go out with you.
2006-10-17 21:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by tkpeverill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring up some new movies that are out in the theatre and when she says she really wants to see one ask her if she wants to go with u and tell her that you will pay or that you have some free tickets or something
2006-10-17 21:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by jimmy h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you are shy i think you need to write a poem. ok....heres the thing the poem needs to be short and sweet then she should be ready for you to ask out and you don't need to be shy . good luck hope i helped.ps be your self don't try to impress her by being someone your not
2006-10-17 22:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by soccersam522 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing formal strategy about that ,..
u can just ask her like what is she doing after school and if she answer no nothing much something like that thing,
then tell her if u r not that busy i just want to but u some frape or coffee then that's it or see a movie perhaps
just that simple,.. like u r asking a fren to acompany u,..
2006-10-17 21:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by 00_tyradjh_00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "Do you want go see a film?"
This way you don't have to talk and after the film you will have a subject to talk about....
2006-10-17 21:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋