alright, well here it is i dated this girl for a year 1/2 she broke up with me and pretty much hated me after the break-up i mean i would always try as hard as i could to work things out but she never seemed to care,but anyways after are break-up eventrully we started talking again and well she would bring up things about well other boys which pissed me off and i felt like she knew she was doing it on purpose ,well after awile we kinda just lost touch but every now and than when she was drunk she would call me and tell me how much she misses me and one day well she wasnt drunk and she talked about it and i felt like she really ment it cause it was late like around 2.am and kept saying really did hear me i mean it over and over well after that she well completly ignored me. should i get over her and if so how can i move on ?
2006-10-17 14:41:41 · 12 answers · asked by Bman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay I personally think that when you drink, your true feelings come out, and being a Psychology Major, and having studied this theory...I can honestly tell you that she does still have feelings for you. If you feel the same way about her, you should do everything in your power to get her to sit down and have a conversation with you...and I promise the truth will come out. You should do whatever it takes to accomplish this, because honestly the fact that you are still wondering about it and asking this question proves that you still have feeling for her as well. Just give it a try, you never know what can happen. Besides, if you don't, you might regret it for the rest of your life. TAKE A CHANCE. She is probably just ignoring you, because she feels akward having laid out all of her feelings, and the fact that you don't seem to be doing anything about it. GO GET HER, you know that you both deserve to be happy.
2006-10-17 14:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by butterflykisses03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best solution is always the solution that works no matter which direction the other person goes. Therefore, you should date and enjoy life with as many people as you can. Its a no fail solution because if she wants you back, it will only make her want you more because women always want what they can't have. It keeps the ball in your court. The worst that could happen is she never trys to get you back, but by the time that happens you'll be so into the new interest that you won't care, as much. Its a win/win. Chase her and you give her control, plus you miss out on opportunities to pursue others as you obsess over her. Lose, lose. Get it?
2006-10-17 21:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by Nick C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are heartless takers and users, they are a disgrace. The only way to move on is to look at yourself and ask yourself why you drew her to you, work on that but most importantly find yourself another partner who hopefully this time has a heart and thinks well of you. If you find a partner the pain will go far easier, if you don't get up off your *** you shall stay there for a long time. Join a club search out things you are interested in and spend time around those places you feel at ease and in time you will find a partner who things as you do. Do not waste any more time thinking of her, do you want to carry this pain around for the next 10 years and have it consume you ? Break out of your stinking thinking !! Good luck pal ........
2006-10-17 21:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she ignores you then she is toying with you git over her and move on because i had this happened to me before except my x talked to and didn't ignore me but i didn't want to git back with him because he treated me like s*** and he hurt me so just get over her there r bigger fish in the sea that is what i got told and trust me there r
2006-10-17 21:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, u just have to give it time, she will eventually come to you, that is if she still likes you, there is no way you can make her like you, just give her some space, after dating other guys, she will finally relize she misses you, hopefully, :)
2006-10-17 21:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by tessg1319 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah just get over her
go to a strip club
or get laid
2006-10-17 21:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by shadow13579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on -- she just feels lonely and knows you are a soft touch to bolster her ego
2006-10-17 21:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on sounds like she is playing games
2006-10-17 21:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she has a drinking problem...anway, this girl is just toying with you, move on to better...
2006-10-17 21:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should
2006-10-17 21:44:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋