Me and my b/f have broken up for at least 30 times,but a while later we both feel life is incomplete without each other and get back together.But the problem will come up again.
How do stop rebounding?Any specific advice?
2006-10-17 14:37:38 · 13 answers · asked by angela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, stop thinking that being single is worse than being with someone who is not a good match. You need some time to yourself to get grounded, learn who you are as a person, and enjoy life (w/o a boyfriend).
When you are happy with who you are and where you are in life...that is when you'll make a good partner for someone and stop clinging to someone who is not right for you, just to keep from being alone.
2006-10-17 14:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 20:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Angela one of you have to be strong enough to let the other go. What I mean is if you have patched things up like 30 times and are sure that there is no more hope for a real reunion of your relationship then you must let it go.
If you keep going back and not allow yourself the time to heal before going forward you will rebound but with another person and this can be just as traumatic. You need time by yourself to help yourself come to the place where you see clearly where things went wrong. How you can no longer trust each other and so on. All of this takes time and don't grab the first person who gives you the eye just for justification's sake or to make him jealous those kinds of things are for teenagers and their crushes, if you are a mature human being you deserve to recognize your feelings, accept them, own up to your part of the reasons why things didn't work, and learn from this take something positive with you from this. This is how we grow.
Good luck and God bless.
2006-10-17 14:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay some attention to yourself. Make yourself complete and then you won't feel incomplete. When you can go into a relationship a whole person, you will know what you really want.
2006-10-17 14:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a brake up you feel a sense of lose and empliness, to fill that void you turn back to what fill it before your ex-bf. To solve this you must endaure the pain of loss and empliness, then will time heal the pain.
2006-10-17 14:41:41 · answer #5 · answered by Nam N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ok im not trying to mean but if it happens agian find someone else b-4 you guy get back together again because if it keepsone happening you guys will allways be doing the breakup thig all way s or just tell him that you want to move on if he comes back and not you.
2006-10-17 14:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-01-26 04:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by Mira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have absoultely no contact with each other for at least 6 months.
2006-10-17 14:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you may need to take a break from each other try hanging out with friends
2006-10-17 14:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sex next time you break it off. Let's see if you two rebound again.
2006-10-17 14:41:37 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋