we were going to homecoming together as friends. then i started to like her. i told her, n she began to ignore me and act like she didnt like me. she didnt, and she didnt want to lead me on. she likes someone else too. i dont feel like going to homecoming anymore because she doesnt like me and acts like she hates just not to lead me on. it really hurts me so id rather just not go. but i think i should because i did ask her so...but she doesnt wana go unless i have fun n i honestly wont. we got into sort of an argument, i asked her to decide to go or not, if she does ill take her, if not, thats fine too. she said she doesnt kno anymore and then she left. wat should i do? im planning on not talking to her anymore n just kinda leave after the homecoming anyways, so should i bother? wats the right thig to do?
2006-10-17 14:36:40 · 10 answers · asked by kkong25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's playing "Hard to get" go to homecomings without her and have a good time with ya friends or another girl! She will hear about it from her friends and she will be jealous! Then your chances with her will be better!
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2006-10-17 14:41:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, go to homecoming. Just apologize (not that you did anything wrong) just say you are sorry if you caused any uncomfortable feelings and you are sorry if things are not strange between you. Say, lets just go and have a good time. If you want tell her that it is ok if she would rather go with someone else however, if that were the case why wasn't she asked? And you should go and have a good time regardless. I am sure there are other girls there to talk with and dance with. Worrying about someone hating you over nothing is not your problem it is hers.
Have fun and don't sweat this........
2006-10-17 21:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by cutetoes68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw her... take another chick. Or just stop being a pussy and go by yourself and have a good time. You only in high school for four years make the best out of it. But afterward you are going to be start a whole new life. SO either make up with her and be her friend and lose the feelings or take another chick or go with a guy or go by yourself or just don't go at all if you are going to be a sour pus. SHe was just a girl who wanted to be your friend nothing more than that. by not taking her to the dance is just showing that you don't cherish yall friendship so why should she even like you at all. I mean really dude think about it. You only have so many choices in life.
2006-10-17 21:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to level with you and tell you if she wants to go to homecoming with you. Tell her she is in no way obligated to go with you but you would like to go if she would. If she says no, then find someone else and have a great time. Do not stay home!!!! Don't let her think she ruined your night. What's her problem, anyway? You did nothing wrong, sounds like she is anal retentive.
2006-10-17 21:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First! i think the best thing to do is FORGET ABOUT HER. K have you ever heard that there are plenty more fishes in the ocean. You just gotta move on, I mean seriously when you told her how you felt and she's ignoring you, I think you should definetley go but go with another woman just to get her attention and when you do Ignore her... BEST THINGS IN LIFE ARE FREE!!! I bet you'll meet someone soon and even beautiful than her...
2006-10-17 21:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by Shanny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ball's in her court. You asked her if she still wants to go, and she hasn't answered you yet. Obviously, you need an answer soon. Without laying on any kind of guilt trip, you need to ask her again to let you know ASAP so that you still have the option of going with someone else. It's pretty rude of her to leave you hanging like that.
2006-10-17 21:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to go by herself, and you go with your friends, and just ignore her that would be the best thing,cause shes to cold hearted too you.At least you were honest about things. Most guys would just carry on and end up getting hurt worse.
2006-10-17 21:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should go to the homecomming. It could be fun, you never know.
2006-10-17 21:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by *Music ♥ Love* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her if she has someone else she wants to go with, then to go with him, then you can find someone else to go with and you both will have a good time.
2006-10-17 21:42:27 · answer #9 · answered by suzjm98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really dont wanna go.. then dont.. but ill never get a homecoming (my school just doesnt have one) so if i got one id go even if i went alone.. but thats just me.. not sayin wat u should do.. just sayin wat i would do in ur shoes.. just follow ur heart.. pray about it.. seek Gods answers theyre sooo much better than nething a human can come up with..
good luck and God Bless!!!!
2006-10-17 21:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by jesusfreaktillthedayidie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋