He tells me that he won't leave me. He even wrote me this sweet love note. But he tells me that these girls where he lives touch him. Private parts, hugging, and all! I get pretty upset. But i just don't say anything. Should i open my mouth and tell him my feelings or let it slide. And this doesn't just happen occassionally. He also gets mad when guys hug me, even if they're just saying hi. But the girls he talks to hug him to flirt. What should i do??
2006-10-17 14:27:57 · 15 answers · asked by annetteXskye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds to me liek a typical guy. he has no right to ge upset at you for your friends hugging and sayin hey if his friends hug hang all over adn touch him. i woudl say somethin. i personally would be kinds pissed if my girl didnt say somethin to me about somethin like that. tell him how you feel and tell him he has no right to get upset at you when your friends hug you. remind him who you are going home with, him, not them!
2006-10-17 14:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by lpxerounderground 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Speak up!! You have to be clear, and although he says he won't leave you, you should get serious about this because no one knows when he could take a profit out of that, even more knowing that you don't care. So tell him that, say what you feel towards those incidents with these girls. A real relationship is based in trust so you must speak your mind and make yourself respect. I'm not telling how you should handle your relationship because you seem to be in a good one but just speak your mind. It is a positive thing that he told you that these girls were touching him because that shows that he is honest with you so I think you should not have a big problem when disscussiong this with your boyfriend. Wish you luck.
2006-10-17 21:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by elipra91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not ok, it seems as though he has a double standard. If he gets upset when men hug you then he should understand how you feel. Tell him how you feel, dont bottle it up or let it slide, that will only cause resentment.
2006-10-17 22:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by flwrgyrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are young. Tell him again how you feel, and that is not respectful to you.
Why are they touching his private parts? Isn't that cheating?
I would tell him what is acceptable and if he doesn't stop hanging with all these girl who can't respect that he's in a relationship, that you need to move on.
2006-10-17 22:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by joulesofaffection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if he's really into you, he needs to handle this "other women" situation. And you should be the one to tell him that. Why do people always have to tell each other when someone flirts with them? It shouldn't matter. If he likes you, it really won't matter what those other girls do. Tell him how you feel.
2006-10-17 21:32:56 · answer #5 · answered by It's Been Cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your true feelings hun! Don't let it slide! Tell him to tell the girls to knock it off cause he loves you, not them. And I'd give him a little talk too...like not yelling, just asking how it started and all and result in asking him to stop and all. Hope that helped!
*Rae*
2006-10-17 21:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by animegirl769z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't state your age but it sounds like you are quite young. Life is too short to be upset about a young love. I guarantee that 20 years from now you probably won't even remember his name. Move on, have fun, and don't get too serious too soon.
2006-10-17 21:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by Smartypants 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea...u can tell wht 'ur feeling with him. Do u still love him? Find out other guy better than him. He so egoist.
2006-10-17 21:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not okay. Tell him he's being unfair. If he doesn't want anyone to touch you then why should it be okay for anyone to touch him?
2006-10-17 21:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by Snow Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your feelings.
2006-10-17 21:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋