I have a friend (who is a girl) and we have been friends since as long as i can remeber. I think i am starting to have feelings for her and dont know if i should tell her i like her or not. It might make things uncomfortable between us being friends, but i just dont know what to do. We hang out alot but have never really talked about liking eachother or anything. i need some suggestions girls...
2006-10-17 14:25:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For everyone who has been saying things tha suggest im gay...IM A BOY!!
2006-10-17 14:39:39 · update #1
Sometimes best friends can make the best girlfriends. I would tell her how you feel, if she doesn't feel the same way, she'll tell you. There's no reason to feel awkward, I would just be more concerned with dating, and how it could affect the friendship. Approach it carefully, maybe mention that she would make a good girlfriend, or to be a little more subtle, ask her out, just the two of you. You don't need to say it's a date, but if you're alone, she might take a hint you have something for her. Good luck!
2006-10-17 14:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by renny08 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just kind of hint at it. At first. IF she asks, come out and say it. Or write her a letter.
But be careful, because if things change from more than friends, some people have a hard time, getting back to just friends again... and I'm sure you don't want to lose that friendship.
2006-10-17 14:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by joulesofaffection 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't say a word // unless you want to risk a friendship !! it's not uncommon for friends to get really close ... just understand that you could love her as a friend >>>> and those feelings are just because of how close you are to her .....>> if you find that you have to tell her just be sure what you feel is real and be prepared to freak her out >>>if she feels the same about you > you will know ,
2006-10-17 14:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by yvette b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really good friends......then you should be able to talk with her & present your feelings. Put it in such a way that you definately want her to know you want to remain friends no matter what her feelings are (if that is the way you feel). Since you just think you are starting to have feelings for her, something has changed recently to have that happen.
2006-10-17 14:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If youve been friends for a Long time then you 2 must be comfortable with each other in telling each other everything. Just bring up the topic
2006-10-17 14:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by Rooster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can keep it a fantasy and use her as, uh, stuff to think about when you are being 'intimate' with yourself in the shower....
Or you can take her out to lunch or on a picnic. Spend some time alone with her. Look into her eyes and pay attention to her body language. Steal a sweet kiss on the lips... keep it simple and don't overwhelm her with tongue. See how she responds. If she responds positively, go as far as you feel you should go. If she responds negatively, say, "I'm sorry" and explain that you hope it doesn't ruin your friendship, etc.
Good luck, Hon!
2006-10-17 14:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just talk to her first. Ask her if she'd ever want to be more than just "friends." If she says yes, ask her out. If she says no, just tell her that's okay, and you are fine being only "friends" for a while. Tell her that if she ever wants to go out with you, just talk to you first. Good luck!
2006-10-17 14:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by MrsBrightside0247 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm not a girl but if both of you are lesbos then go for it. And another thing, from my experiences girls tend to like other girls as well as guys. Basically they will go for whatever they can get. Go for the lesbo thing though, even if she isn't a lesbo, if she's not try tricking her or something.
How old are you anyway?
2006-10-17 14:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by Plague92 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you gay? If so, does your friend know? Is she gay? All you can do is tell her and deal with the consequences of possibly making her uncomfortable and not wanting to spend too much time with you anymore or maybe she's into you too and then just think of the possibilities!!!
2006-10-17 14:29:44 · answer #9 · answered by shel_920 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I've been here done that.you need to tell her how you feel cuz believe me later on in the future you might regret it. chances are she has feelings for you she just may not know it yet.
2006-10-17 14:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋