I live on my own and have begun my career. I'm not super-hot but don't think I'm ugly either. I'm abou 6'3", blonde, have some acne, and have a thin frame. I think most of my problem comes from not knowing how to approach ladies. I'm always afraid I'll come off like a lame pick-up line guy.
2006-10-17 14:24:36 · 11 answers · asked by Satellite_K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well damn if you never kiss a girl before. You need to start practicing. Because you are just going to BAM BE A STUD!!! Find a girl has expertise who can help you out with tips and make out with you (FOR PRACTICE)
2006-10-17 14:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really not that bad! Just show a girl that you want to get to know her. Ask her questions about herself. Girls have a 'hang-up' about sex because many guys just have sex with them and then when girls want to keep talking and getting to know each other, the guy backs off. Many guys just use girls. I think that the best way to do this is just to be honest. Tell her what you want out of your relationship. (Sex or a long-term thing or whatever.) That way she can decide whether or not she is up for it. She will appreciate your honesty. The game really isn't that hard. At least you guys don't have to sit there waiting for the phone to ring. If you're worried about meeting girls, just strike up a friendly conversation. If you hit it off, great. It's really not as bad as you make it out to be. Also I'd hold off on telling her you're bisexual unless for some reason you think she's into it. Tell her after you've gotten to know each other a little better, i.e. not at your first meeting. Good luck and let me know how it goes!
2016-03-28 13:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, don't use pick up lines... If you see a young lady that you find alluring or attractive... It would be great if you had a dog because they sometimes are chick magnets... However, make sure it doesn't sniff crotches... BAD!!!
Anyway, if you have nothing to help give you an edge over the nervousness... Simply walk up and stand next to her on the pretense you're waiting for something... Say she's at a public bar or a restaurant bar... Ask if they have a menu of specials or food items... Look over it and act like you're concentrating...
"excuse me, do you know what's really good to eat here? Could you recommend something?" It seems innocent enough, she may be willing if you don't push it... Thank her for her assistance.. Don't ask her to come over with you... See if you've planted a seed for her to come over and sit with you...
I know it's hard to believe, but guys who are confident and don't appear to be on the make are RARE... Some women want just to meet a NORMAL guy...
You go up there and act like Mr. Studly Pick Guy, you're probably going to get the shut out... This way, when she and her girlfriends are talking... Every guy in here is a creep hitting on us... You've got the trump card in that you DIDN'T...
She can go with her friends OR she can go up to you and see if you're nice... She might like to have Hors Dourve with you...
Just don't act like you're trying to pick her up... "Oh would you like to join me? My name is "Jerry"... It's nice to meet you, Cindy.. Do you need a fresh drink? I'll ask the waitress to bring another plate...
Just don't go for the direct ask out too quickly... Just take it slow and easy...
2006-10-17 14:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by James B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, what kind of girl are you looking for? It's always a good idea to have the ideal personalities that you are attracted too. You dont want to date the wrong girl and be sorry later on. I wouldn't recommend going to a bar or in a club just to pick up girls. Or unless if you're into that kind of atmosphere. It's always a good idea to join up club or sports that you're interested in. That's the best way to meet people. Or even a singles club in your area?
I'm pretty shy myself and it's hard for me to even approach guys like yourself. :)
2006-10-17 14:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by mitchchan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by joining a gym, and building up your muscles and self esteem. It is a good place to meet people too. Then slowly get to know some girl ask her out and go from there. Don't take life serious. Have fun You're young.
2006-10-17 14:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
approaching a girl isn't too hard. just walk up and say hello go from there. if you think too hard it will come out like a cheezy pick up line (though even that works sometimes). be yourself, worry not so much about how you look and more on smiling when you say hello.
2006-10-17 14:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn! Look, either buy a hooker to get you accostomed to what to expect (financially too) , or go out to the bars, find a drunk girl and pretend to care about the stupid crap she tells you. Take her home and she will walk you through it without knowing that you are inexperienced. After that, you'll have a better idea what to expect.
2006-10-17 14:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by rick s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find an online dating service. One that will give you a personality test and match you with someone suited for you.
2006-10-17 14:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a couple of hookers and dig in!!
2006-10-17 14:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by 10 to 20 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on the social skills!!!!!!
2006-10-17 14:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by Bombenhagel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋