You know the show offs get all the freakin attention and i have everything muscles,abs,good looks, athletic, smart. and people still dont notice me. its not even that even if i do get noticed its by girls who are unattrative. Im of Indian desent so theres not really that much good lookin girls. but im not really Indian. The hot Indian girls dont even notice me. So how can i get them to notice me
2006-10-17 14:10:17 · 20 answers · asked by HOT RYAN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore them and be a jerk, most girls love that, most girls love to chase what they can't have, you need to show them that your not desperate and can have anyone you want. do this and you'll have lots of girls!!!! I speak from personal experience. Beth
2006-10-17 14:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is an India ? Are you an Asian India ? Or a Native American Indian ? Whatever you are you appear to be a little confused. One minute you are one and the next you actually arn't. I am sure many people notice you, maybe you are overly aggressive, too desperate that you make people feel uncomfortable. One day soon everything will slip in to it's natural place and all will be well in your head heart and home. The uncomfortable ride does not last forever but by the same token you will be lucky to land on your feet and stay that way throughout your journey. Enjoy what there is to enjoy and know the bad times do not last forever. Hills and valleys, thats the road of life.
2006-10-17 21:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a gentlemen. There is nothing more intising to me than when a guy smiles at me, opens at door for me, and is just all around a sweet guy. I know...the hot girls dont' notice you, but they will. Right now the most hot girls are a little too proud of their hotness and so they have to have the cool boyfriends. The nice boys always have to wait around a little longer, because us girls who are nice wait just a little longer to come out and find our men that are nice! I know that doesn't make sense, but just dont' turn in to a show-off, for me those are the biggest turn-offs! Hang in there!
2006-10-17 21:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Catch a Falling Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few years I knew a few women who were beautiful,and they recieved only passing attention from most men I knew.However as it is im my teasing ,aggravation style I discovered they were intimated and shy and couldnt bring themselves to approach the girls.I began to notice more of this after that.By the way these girls were OK and approachable too.Hope something in this is helpful.
2006-10-17 21:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by hunter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you're a politician---say hi to everyone, and smile.
Remember first names, and use them---people LOVE to hear their own name. Start small at first---say hi to one new person every day, and build from there. People (girls) may just be waiting for you to say hello first. Women are often not charmed by the way a guy looks but by his positive attitude, the way he relates to others, and the way he smiles. Handsome is as handsome does!
2006-10-17 21:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by papyrusbtl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's my advice. Life isn't something that happens to you, you have to treat others the way you want to be treated.
Another way to put it, you have to go engage other people. No matter whether you are shy or conceited (or neither), others can't tell the difference. Go make some conversation and let others see how interesting and/or nice you are!
Don't wait for them to come to you. You'll be waiting a long time.
2006-10-17 21:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by Coffeyvillian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self confidence...you can be a super hot looking person, but if you don't feel good about yourself then you will be overshadowed by the mediocre looking person who is comfortable with who they are, likes themselves, and lets it show...
When you are happy with who you are...where you are in life...no matter what you look like, that will shine through and people will notice you and want to be near you...THAT is what attracts people...
2006-10-17 21:16:01 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the ones you are talking about who get noticed they get noticed for the wrong reasons how do you know that you dont get attention give yourself a break ok ask out one of the hot chicks you could be very surprissed good luck
2006-10-17 21:16:10 · answer #8 · answered by shasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loving yourself first is the trick to get people to love you.it seems that you are VERY caught up in the physical,that you overlook the best candidates.ever heard of beauty isn't only skin deep.you will loose all these FAB features in due time&so will all the"cool girls",these girls choose hurt over honesty.
rather get yourself in order&then you'll see your PRINCESS was right in front of you.close your eyes & then start looking!!
2006-10-17 21:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by purpleman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man just kinda do your thing like hang out places where people usualy dont hang out but they walk my there alot. Youll Get sum ones attention.
2006-10-17 21:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋