Hey Guys!
I got with my girlfriend maybe 1 week and 3 days ago. (in 15 and in High School.) I feel like I am making all the moves. Much likes some other posts we don't really hold hands that much. We talk when we are with eachother, but I mean not nearly as much as we should... being the guy... what do you think I should do? Should I tell her, we are not talking enough... I am kidna always saying Hello, or always saying goodbye. She never really helps me out if you know what I mean. Like, she has never said "Hey!" to me, its mostly me saying "Hey!" to her. Not that she doesn't say "Hey" back but you know...
I am just wondering what I should do. Should I just GO with her at recess and stuff, even if it feels REALLY uncomfortable? To summerize... I kinda feel like I am making most the moves and she isnt really helping me out with the whole GF/BF thing...
Thanks, Looking forward to your responces!
2006-10-17 14:07:36 · 9 answers · asked by Coolio!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I ask her to a movie? Just me and her? Should I bring a friend? Should we go as a pair!? Help me out.! Thanks.
2006-10-17 14:53:15 · update #1
she sounds awfully shy with guys, be patience, still waters do run deep. when she becomes comfortable with you ,you may find one of the funniest,fun to be with people in your life- i`ve met people like this, they are worth it! 11,days are not enough to . tell.ask questions about her, tell her some jokes-if you`re uncomfortable at times ,it might make her more shy-tell herabout yourself.the more attention you pay to her. you relax & try to enjoy yourself- she should start warming up.ask, her ouy to the movies-i`d go by myself,unless she has a friend & you have one. you`d both be comfortable with.
2006-10-17 14:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, how is the dating situation at your school? Is everyone pairing up? If so, she could have became your GF to just say she was with someone. Who asked who in the first place and how well did you know her before?
You should be enjoying yourself with her and that's not happening. You should try telling her: I want to get to know you better, let's just me and you spend some quality time together. If she's really interested, she will gladly agree (I mean, you are the one doing all the work here--shy girls like that!) If you are just to show off to her friends at recess, she will try to keep you at a distance.
You definitely don't need to be the one always going after her. Perhaps tone it down some, and if she doesn't make an effort, find someone else. You don't even have to make a big thing about breaking up. It's her fault for not trying and not taking this seriously. Good luck.
2006-10-17 21:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's new to having a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship and doesn't know how to act around you. Give her some more time and keep trying to pull her out of her shell. Seems like the longer she's around you, the more comfortable she'll become.
Good luck
2006-10-17 21:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by woohoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, i dont think she is ur GF,,,, u have it all wrong, she isnt ur GF until she knows u are, and by the sound if this, she is a freind that doesnt give a damn,,, i say forget about her as a GF and start thinking of her as a friend, and then u might even find urself a real GF that actually cares about saying, hi or making a move!
2006-10-17 21:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by mememe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
High school is a tough time for dating,especially if it's your first gf/bf. I know in my personal bf and experience that I had my first bf and I didn't really know what to do so I didn't even hold his hand or talk to him.. hee. hee. however things get easier with time give it some time. and if things do seem to get any better maybe you were both better off as friends
2006-10-17 21:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by Chickengoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Problaly Her First boyfriend, and shes nervous just ask her friends for some help, yall will be ok in a couple of days
2006-10-17 21:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by ilovemyhorse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 15 too and a girl in the 10th grade. I think you should ditch the broad because you don't know what she is sayin' to her friends about you, or if she is usin' you, or cheatin' on you.
2006-10-17 21:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by Token_Cocoa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to talk to her more, you have only been going out a short time and she might be a little uncomfortable. make her comfortable.
2006-10-17 21:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's a bit shy "-"
2006-10-17 21:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by drkjella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋