He always talks to other girls. Not only at school but where he lives. He says that they touch him, even in places I don't. but when i talk to guys at school, even saying hi, he gets really mad. Should i give this relationship another chance, or let it go?
2006-10-17 14:00:39 · 8 answers · asked by annetteXskye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let it go but be careful if he is that bad he might not like you leaving. If you stay with it it will get worse.......... you want someone that trusts you and he has his own problems i would say. Be young and free , dont get yourself stuck wit someone that isnt going to let you be who you are
2006-10-17 14:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by teneesha2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this one is insecure and selfish. Be careful because more than likely this one will cause some hurt and pain. Most of the time when a guy is like that, it's because the world revolves around HIM. HE likes the feeling and the attention with other girls because it causes HIM pleasure. Remember, this is what is happening to HIM and this is all HE see. HE doesn't see the other side which is YOU watching HIM and hurting. Now, when HE sees you talking with other people, HE doesn't like it because now HE is put in a situation where HE is feeling insecure or jealous. HE gets mad and lets you know so that HE can change things to the way HE likes them. HE again does not see your point of view (only HIS). Notice that I say a lot of "HE", becuase this is exactly what is going through his head at all times: HE, HE, HE. After HIM and what HE does/feels, is the rest of the world and what THEY can do for HIM.
Be careful. Sound like you guys are in middle or high school or even maybe college. Hopefully, he will grow up and learn that being in a relationship is a commitment to co-live with someone; meaning sometimes sacrificing your personal pleasure for someone elses. If HE cannot see that then HE is in the relationship because of what the partner can do for HIM. Whether it be sex, convenience, money, or anything that HE like from you.
2006-10-17 14:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. No he's not insecure he's controlling.........he want to be able to do whatever and for you not to say anything. Don't continue to allow him to disrespect you. Don't walk around in bondage and afraid to live when he is obviously enjoying himself.
This type of behavior could lead to him abusing you(mentally and physically) What happens when he gets mad?
2006-10-17 14:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, hes insecure and it's a controlling behavior. I am out of an abusive marriage and I can tell you mine started just like this. Get out now....It's only going to get worse. this is from experience.
2006-10-17 14:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by sunbunnie72 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes with out a drought, time to pack up your belongings and move on because this cat is trouble down the road.
Your Move, make the right one.
Candyman
2006-10-17 14:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by candyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste youre time on a insecure man. he needs time to grow up and become mature.
2006-10-17 14:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by tulsaoklahoma 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah he is get out now my sister is in something like that and it will get worse trust me there are other people out there
2006-10-17 14:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WALK AWAY NOW. HES INSECURE AND HE PROBABLY PUTS YOU DOWN ALSO.
JUST WALK AWAY
2006-10-17 14:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by TROUBLE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋