me and my friend really like these two guys who sit in front of us every day during biology lecture! we were debating how we should initiate a conversation with these boys. picture this: it is 5 minutes before class starts, all four of us are sitting there taking out notebooks and crap, one of us says "------------". what do we say??? i know this may sound sad, but it is harder than you think!
2006-10-17 13:43:35 · 29 answers · asked by ajflkajfsalkfsalkfna 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is sad, two girls and you can't make contact with two boys, who are inches away from you.
It's so easy, you have a book don't you for that class. Drop it, beside them, let them pick it up and return it too you. Once you have thanked them, the ice is broken, and you can ask them, how they are doing in the class, what do they think of the teacher, the whole biology thing. Do you find it easy, or hard, once you have started talking, it will be a piece of cake.
Suggest that you go for a coffee so that you can pick their brains, on the class. Men love to be helpful to girls, and I'm sure they will be happy to help you out.
The rest is easy.
It's funny, times don't change much, in Victorian times, the ladies, who wished to meet a gentleman, that she was interested in, would walk by them and drop their handkerchief and of course, is he was interested too, he would pick it up and return it to the lady. She of course would be totally surprised that she had dropped it, and thank him profusely. The ice is broken, once you start talking.
2006-10-17 13:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that it's harder to act on an interest because there's the element of risk involved. However, nothing ventured is nothing gained. Just try saying hi to them and let the conversation happen. Who knows, those guys just might be wondering the same thing about you and your friend.
Since you are in the same class, you already have a common subject to talk about (the teacher, the textbook, the upcoming test, etc) and you may have plenty in common to talk about.
There's no promise that it will work out but that's part of life. Sometimes you just have to risk rejection to get where you want to be. I hope it works out for you.
2006-10-17 13:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by Red1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could just say hey. But if you want something slightly more creative/sneaky ask for a pencil or pen right before class starts, then when you give it to them at the end of class ask them what they are doing ,and if they want to hang out sometime, study for a test, whatever. If they like you once you initiate the conversation the rest will take care of itself.
2006-10-17 13:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by wsguy1983 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Conversations between strangers rarely happen without an introduction. The first thing you should do is shake their hands and introduce yourselves (though that might be a bit embarrasing this late in the game) then you'll at least have some level of connection for a conversation to branch off of.
2006-10-17 13:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by DonSoze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl. at the same time as male Ryan is called in attendance anybody is familiar with he's a guy. at the same time as woman Ryan receives called, anybody imagine this is yet another guy. The boy has no longer something to be embarrassed about, anybody is familiar with it is a boy call. the girl on the different hand, having a boy in college with that call might want to probable extra weight on her shoulders
2016-12-04 22:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by stanberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find a common interest to discuss. Do you like the same music style? "Hey, did you get the new Nirvana disc?" Or, the same tv show "Hey, did you guys watch the Office last night?" Or, the same genres "Hey, did you see the marathon of horror movies on TMC?" etc.
Just find something in common. Some tips: video games, tv, sports, and, ahem, "adult entertainment."
2006-10-17 13:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by VmC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask one of them to borrow their notes since you are missing something in your notes or to compare a worksheet answer. this way you can initiate conversation and so can your friend! introduce yourself and if you do not understand something ask the guy you like after class if he understood the material! do not play dumb or fake a lot of stuff a la Legally Blonde since that is just plain stupid itself! get to know the guy and who knows, you two might end up dating. happened for me with my now bf of 14 months -off and on-when we met in college last year in a math class.
2006-10-17 13:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, funny. Try explaining to them plain and simple that you like them. I used to get this alot in high school, and at first it made me come to a loss of words, and they might too. But, don't feel discouraged. After them confrentation I usually find myself thinking alot about the person who said it. Just be honest, because that's what counts!
2006-10-17 13:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by Jako 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of the best ways to get something going in school is either say hello and and tell them youll need to miss a class and if they could please take good notes for you. or you can just miss a class and when you get back ask them if you could borrow their notes. from there, you should be able to start a conversation.
2006-10-17 13:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by yoskraz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't wait that long to speak to them. If they're in their seats when you arrive, just say hi, I'm _______. Ask about the assignment or to borrow a pen, paper, whatever. But if you have plenty of pens and paper, please don't use this one! Most of all don't get giggly. Guys see it as a sign that you're silly.
2006-10-17 13:51:01 · answer #10 · answered by meillee44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋