i need to know!!!
2006-10-17 13:30:46 · 5 answers · asked by thegirlfromthegrayhouse 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, im a shy guy so you will get the info personally.
shy guys have low selfesteem * i know personally* and they are scared to talk to you in fear of what you will say. so it's just as easy as walking up and saying 'hi". i know for a fact im waiting for a girl i like to talk to me, then it will be easy to talk to her from then on, i can't explain it but thats how most shy guys are.
so just talk to them, do it slowly as they will most likly be nervous, and soon the conversaion will most proboly come pretty good from then on.
2006-10-17 13:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by ThemusicalArtist 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way is to ask questions. Ask them what they're doing, what they like, etc. Just keep talking to them and listening to them, and eventually they will not be shy anymore. It may require some patience on your part, but it will pay off. Oh, yeah. If they like you and/or have low self-esteem, you will need to work harder to make them come out of their shells and become optimistic and talkative. Good luck!
2006-10-17 13:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up and talk to them. They probably want to talk to you but are too self-concious. If yuo initiate the conversation then I'm sure that they will speak to you as well.
2006-10-17 13:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by Sheriff Leane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, just start the conversation by saying hi. Just talk to him like any other person. It's really that simple. If you be nice to him, he'll trust you and talk to you.
2006-10-17 13:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm, just be friends with him and then talk to him. it will lessen his shy attributes.
2006-10-17 13:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by bestkeptsecret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋