al right well i have been datin him for 4 month and we met online and he asked me to marry him and wants to met and have sex and stuff HELP!!!!!!!
2006-10-17 13:25:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well like 4 months i really love him i met him once but he wants me to move w/ him does that help loserS!!!!??????
2006-10-17 13:32:15 · update #1
by the way im 25!!!!!!!!
2006-10-17 13:34:22 · update #2
well yeah ... it's probably best if you actually meet BEFORE you get married ... the sex bit of it all is still optional untill marriage .... I would suggest you try something first though ... like .... growing up just a little
2006-10-17 13:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are planning on meeting him, I would suggest taking a friend or two with you and make sure you meet him in a public place just in case you decide you don't like him or if you don't want to go through with anything. I met my husband online but we met in person within one week as we were just friends but it obviously turned out awesome but I was very cautious and it wasnt all about sex. I hope that you are a bit older and not a teenager so that you are able to make good decisons and take the necessary precautions because unfortunately not all people on the net are who they say they are. Be careful in making your decision! Good luck
2006-10-17 13:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by kristen c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be responsible, take care of yourself, the guy could turn out to be a pervert, serial killer, murderer etc. I don't care how long you know this person on line, he is a stranger. Are you sure he is a he, anyone can pose as male or female on the Internet. Meeting him for sex would be the dumbest thing you ever did. Grow up and be responsible.
2006-10-17 13:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you go to meet him, don't go alone and meet in public. Second, beware of someone who says they want to marry you after only 4 months. How can you possibly know how compatible you are after such a short time? As for the sex... just say NO! If he truly cares about you, he won't mind waiting.
2006-10-17 13:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres some advice...DONT DO IT!!!! alot of people are scams on the "online dating prossess" if i were u i would not even meet him. some guys that are on there pretend to be say your age or a couple years older. DONT FALL FOR IT. it could be a person that is like 50! you here stories all around the world saying that someone has been raped or kinapped. so pleze do not do it!
2006-10-17 13:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by Morgan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you met in person yet? If not, NO! He probably has the same scam going with 4 other women.
2006-10-17 13:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a bf just over the net isn't thge best idea... meeting not a good idea. You need a real boyfriend, one you can see and touch. Not a person that types you nice love notes.
2006-10-17 13:28:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i would say gurl that four monthes is not enough and its to early to get married tell him to take things slow and see if it goes better in a few more monthes or one year dont take things to quickly b/c u never no wat mistake u will get into he may also be a perver or somtheing b/c u havent even met him and in the net ther e could be crazy people watch out honey be careful i think in my honest true dont go dont listen t o him if he tells you in a sad vioce please can u come b/c then its dangeours
2006-10-17 13:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by latina babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants too much too soon. Are you saying you met him online and have not met him face to face??? If that's the case, back away from this deal.......... creepy... Also, if you are under 18... no way !!
2006-10-17 13:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by Bikerbutt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Met online? Looooosssseeerrr!!! He's not your bf. You kinda hve to meet those... IN PERSON.
PS- Hey, sweetie, I'm not a loser, I met my MAN in PERSON and i'm MARRIED. I don't have to us e"like" to like get my point across. Like, do you understand?
2006-10-17 13:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by All I have to do is dream... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋