I meet this guy a month ago and we have been going out, he calls me everyother day, he talks to his friends about me and everything seemed to go well, he even told a friend of ours that he really liked me but that he wanted to take things slow. But today his best friend told me that this guy likes me but that he doesn´t want a serious relationship right now. So I know I should really dump him , but I´m confused why do guy do this act as if they´re into you and then como with those kind of things? Sincerely I don´t know what to do I´m confused I think that if his best friend told me it´s because he knows that´s the way it is so should I do I´m so dissapointed!???
2006-10-17 13:24:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relax. He sounds really into you - maybe he's just not ready to get real serious. You've only been going out for a month. Just enjoy yourself and have fun. If it goes for a year like that - THEN worry about getting serious or not. This poor guy is doing everything right and being honest to you about it. Be happy with that or let him find someone who would be.
2006-10-17 13:28:37 · answer #1 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you talk to HIM about it instead of just his friends? If you want to have a serious, adult relationship you need to meet him on the same level.
Talk to him about it and let him know what you want -- that you really like him and don't want what you have right now to end, but that you need to know if it's going anywhere. If he respects you, he'll talk to you about it honestly.
2006-10-17 20:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Yummy Canadian Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Top thing on a guy's mind is sex. I am sure this boy is thinking of having sex with you. In this day and age, I am sorry to tell you, but guys want sex and NO committment. Those are the kind of guys you should avoid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-17 20:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about what you heard. Communication is the key to any relationship working. If he can't be open and honest with you, then he isn't worth it.
2006-10-17 20:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just might be afraid of commitment. Give him a shot. You might learn that he really does like you, but is afraid of showing it. :) You'll be fine.
2006-10-17 20:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe this preson Just wants you two to beakup to have him don't let your gard down. your bestfriend can turn out to be your worst enemy?
2006-10-17 20:28:20 · answer #6 · answered by cutey#1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to your boyfriend. ask him how far things should go...communicate with him...not his best friend.
2006-10-17 20:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋