ok so. since september of last year i had this HUGE crush on this guy. We becamse friends, he was in my class, he was cool with one of my close friends and so on. Everything was going great and all. i was starting to think he liked me too. but i screwed it up when i told him how i feel, and i got my heart broken. After i told him, we just went on being friends, acting like i never said anything. but then summer break started and i didnt see him in 3 months. but when school started, everything was diffrent, we never really saw each other, we didnt have any classes or anything. i would only see him afterschool. and i would say hi. it never went any further but i saw he was acting like a retard with his friends so i stopped saying hi. but now he tries to start conversations with me in the weirdest ways, he'll try to get my attention, but im not sure if hes doing it on purpose. im so confused. should i move on or should i stick around and see if things might change?
2006-10-17 13:21:10 · 18 answers · asked by Roxy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not sure if hes intrested
because were in diffrent social groups.
i think that might be a big problem
2006-10-17 13:25:08 · update #1
hon, the best answer is there is no real good answer. You can pour out all the details on your end, but, we have no idea as to where he is. I prefer the old fashioned approach. Let him find you. The more you are available to him, the less he will be interested in you- IE last year. Now you are less Ava, he is more interested- IE this year. While that is kinda strange, it seems to be the norm. Remember the toys in your past that you wanted so bad? Your parents gave them to you, but you mostly lost interest quickly. The ones that you worked the hardest for, were the lasting thing. For the guys, it's the same. Look at the playas out there, too many sweets to choose from. They can't choose just one. Too many broken hearts, not to mention reputations. It's the nice guys that are passed up because they are not "in". I say don't change for him. Set your life goals and go forth. If he's ment to be, he will be. You just might have to be patient. Watch and observe. Enjoy the conversation for a while and don't pine away for him! You are too good to waste time in that way , besides when you are older this becomes one of "those" awkward stories we share or hide.
2006-10-17 13:45:46 · answer #1 · answered by believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been on the other side of a situation like this, when I was in school. The girl started flirting with me, and some of her friends started asking me if I liked her. After evading the question for some time, I finally said no. That got back to her, and she was upset, but didn't pursue me any more.
Actually, I might have been receptive, except that I felt like I was being pushed. Being an awkward teenager, I just didn't know how to handle that.
I suspect you have a chance with this guy, if you can be patient. If he doesn't feel for you what you feel for him, that's fine. Just accept your feelings, and respect his as well.
2006-10-17 20:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by Allen Montgomery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough situation considering i've been there myself, maybe him trying to get ur attention because he secretly likes u, but don't go haywire and start chasing him, if u have his # give him a call once or twice every 3 weeks or so, and ask him what happened to the old him that always brings good conversation and as much as possible a school act like u don't even c him when he is trying to get ur attention unless he saiys something then u have to talk back it's just plain rude not to and he'll think ur mad at him.
Hope this helps.
2006-10-17 20:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by sweettrouble94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just doing that to act like hes cool and make people accept him and he is going to change alot but he might not be the same so i would make it so that wen he is trying to get ur attention to ingore him and wen after a while he will start wondering and he will be sorry he acted that way or u can tell him that he is acting weird
2006-10-17 20:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by nate c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's interested in you but is afraid things may have changed over the summer. Just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime.
2006-10-17 20:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy might seem to like you!!!!!!!!!! he was your freind and with you all the time he never appreceatied you or felt like he liked you! Now that he deosn't see you any more he might regret that he didn't relize he likes you and now he wants to be your boyfreind. If you like this guy go get him, god gave you a second chance, if you moved on,well you moved on!
2006-10-17 20:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by indy b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love and get your heart broken at least you tried. If you let the moment pass you by then you will regret and never know!
2006-10-17 20:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by violettelillyrose81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Who wants a weird retard for a boyfriend??
2006-10-17 20:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's dawned on him that he likes you now? Maybe he wasn't quite sure of his feelings in the past and thus only pursued a friendship and it is possible he is wanting more.
2006-10-17 20:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by bc_grl68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2006-10-17 20:24:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋