I know this really nice and good looking girl and we got to know each other for about a month and we look like a good pair, have a lot of things in common, I asked her 2 homecoming, but shes going wit a junior she got my message I sent her , and came up to me and told me slowly and sweetly that she was REALLY sorry she couldn’t go with me and that if I asked earlier she would have said yes to me, I said it was ok, now we’re getting to know each other even more and the homecoming foot ball game is coming up should I ask her to get a drink with me at it? and hers another problem: another girl is hinting to me that she likes me, always saying hi cheerfully to me and always commenting me on my myspace, I like her as a friend... wat do I do, who do I choose? I’m confused!
2006-10-17 13:19:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my advice to you is to go with the girl you want to be with. im sorry to say this but if that girl liked you then she would have gone to homecoming with you no matter how bad she felt for the other guy. i say you go for the one that you like and won't regret.
2006-10-17 13:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you don't have a girlfriend. You can talk to and go out with as many girls as you like until you decide to make one of them your girlfriend. If I were you, I'd give the girl who rejected you another chance by asking her out to something else. If I got anything but a "yes", a suggestion for a SPECIFIC different time, or an EXTREMELY good excuse, I would forget about her. Even though you should not quite give up on the first one yet, I think you should strongly consider the other one (who actually seems to like you). I think you have much better odds with the second one. The first one might be all talk with this "REALLY sorry" stuff; she had as much opportunity as you did to mention that she would like to go to homecoming with you. Anyway, from what you say it's hard to completely exclude the first one. But the second one is definitely sounding like a good girl for you. Good luck!
2006-10-17 20:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since the girl you like is going to the dance with another guy, then what is stopping you from going with another girl. DO IT! You will have fun, and after the dance is over, you can keep the date as a friend, and pursue the girl you really like. Don't lead the date on, but be nice to her. Tell her that you can go to the dance with her, but don't let it go beyond that, unless you have so much fun with her that you want to start seeing her. Understand? You are making too much out of this. Just go and have fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-17 20:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First don't ask out the other girl to homecoming because you'll have to perform a serious cock block at homecoming if you like that girl as much as you said you do( If you don't know what a cock block is then you might want to go back to sixth grade).
2006-10-17 20:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by Alexis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you go with the girl that likes you already. But if you don't want to, and if you want to chase that girl who's really not interested in you, go right ahead. It's a nice test to see if that girl you are chasing really digs you, and you will learn more in the future if she rejects you, which is likely. But I really suggest that you go with that girl who's been bugging you, because I'm sure you two will have alot of fun, even if you don't have ANYTHING in common! It's only human nature that two people have more fun when they are interested.
2006-10-17 20:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Badman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the girl you like more. It isnt ur fault that the girl likes you. And deffinately ask her to get a drink i think it would be a step closer for you. 99 out of 100 percent she likes u so totally go for it
2006-10-17 20:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by RaddyTaddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she didnt like you she wouldnt have come up to you and told you. I also think that the other girl is jellous. I've been in a situatuion like this and I thought about it to hard. I tried to get my friend to help me out but he just made it worse. I found out later that he liked her to and was jelous that she liked me and not him. If I was you id just do what you feel is best and wait some to see if anything happens.
2006-10-17 20:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by ryan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just don't push it my friend. Play it cool and kick back and go with girl #2 and enjoy. She may have more going for her than you realize. Girl #1 already has a date. Don't butt in....
2006-10-17 20:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by Bikerbutt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose the first girl you like...Of course it will be all right to ask her to have a drink with you.
2006-10-17 20:22:29 · answer #9 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...that's confusing....she may like u so what do u have to lose....ask her!! And if that other girl asks u out tell her nicley no.....hey she'll get over it.....just do what ur heart says is right.
2006-10-17 20:24:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋