i'm starting to really like this one guy, but i don't know if he will just use me or not. I know that he likes me but he hasn't gotten over another girl. do i wait it ot or just forget it?
2006-10-17 13:05:19 · 14 answers · asked by Skyanne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he likes you, he will get over the other girl quickly if you give him some attention. Unfortunately, he may also be on the rebound. It's still worth a try, I think. But you might have to make the first move, or at least start encouraging him to make the a move. I think you should talk to him until things settle down a bit, and then start asking him out. Good luck!
2006-10-17 13:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say wait and see if u truly like him!!!I think it takes longer for a guy to get over someone than it does a female!!! if things dont work out then move on!!! It might hurt to see him with someone else but u have to let it go and relize he is not with u!! I am going through the same thing i know how you feel!!! GOOD LUCK
2006-10-17 20:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by mommy of 3 baby boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't gotten over that other girl, then he is just on the rebound. If you two go out, then he'll probably just be showing his ex-girl how he can get another girl. Don't go out with this guy, you will seriously regret it if you do.
2006-10-17 20:10:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!!
How are u?
u don't want to be used i just got out of a relationship because i was being used if u really like him wait and see what happens
Good Luck
2006-10-17 20:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has not gotten over the other girl, then do not get in to a relationship with him.
Usually, when people jump from relationship to relationship, without getting over the other person, it does not work. They are on the rebound, and don't want to be alone.
2006-10-17 20:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by star22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being on the rebound is no fun. Allow him time to fully get over his ex, and even then be careful, don't let your emotions give in to your desires. Just take it very slow, in order to see if he's feeling you or want you as a rebound chick. Be no ones rebound chick, unless that's all you want.
2006-10-17 21:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by mouse in chicago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him wait it out if you want but I wouldn't let others pass me by waiting on him if hes not over her its probably going to take sometime if you dont think hes ready I would wait
2006-10-17 20:10:15 · answer #7 · answered by crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely wait it out. If you think his heart might even partly be with someone else, he won't be able to commit to you. If that's the case, then whether he means to, he'll end up hurting you.
Best Regards,
Holly
2006-10-17 20:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and see him but don't put out. Don't abuse yourself like that. Become friends and slowly things will work out.
2006-10-17 20:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by KerryAnn67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget ity because he will still keep talkimg about that girl.......unless hes over her then go 4 him and he will stop talking about her
2006-10-17 20:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by crystal margera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋