suicide: An easy way out?

Question

I have reccently been through hell in my life, my father's in jail for abuse&kidnapping me and my grandmother (my legal gaurdian!!) is abusing me, and I don't know what to do, I just want to get away, I was thinking about suicide, and then I thought about running away, all these voices are in my head and I can't get them out... Sucide = an easy way out?

i'm 17.............

Answer 1

listen to me...
ive wanted to comit suicide a bunch of times and one time i was talking to my friend benji and he told me that comiting suicide is one of the most selfish things that you can do....and when i really thought about what he said i realized that he was right.i didnt comit suicide but i did cut my wrist once...luckily nobody noticed and you cant even see the scar....now im not saying to cut your wrist but deffinately dont kill yourself...please...
and if your grnadmother is abusing you then what you need to do is either call the cops the next time she does something to you so there is fresh evidence or you can tell one of your teachers...ive found that telling a teacher can do you alot of good....one time before my dad left,he had been hitting me alot and stuff and my mom couldnt do anything about it (to this day she still feels awefull about not being able to do anything and appologizes all the time) but anyways one day i told my fifth grade teacher about it and i tld her what he had don to me and i showed her my bruises and cuts and i had to stay with my grandfather for a while but in the end my dad and mom got back together and now he appologizes and feels awefull about it...i dont love or trust him as much and i have trust issues and stuff but that doesnt stop me from having fun with him sometimes.
please dont take your life...because even though it seems like a way out your family and friends will be bombarded with grief and saddness....think of how much they love you...and focus on them
best of wishes
with lots of love always,
kate

Answer 2

Suicide may seem to be a solution but DON'T do it.You are young and you will not have to live with your grandmother forever.Talk to someone on a child help line who can help you.They will talk to you and let you know what to do, who to tell.Your life will get better,it may just take some time.You cannot begin to imagine how many people who are in your life who would be willing to help you if you would only get the courage to ask for help.Perhaps you could go with another relative or even into fostercare.Take a minute and ask yourself what you would like to be doing in 10 years.You must finish school at all costs.Get an education .An education is your passport to a happier and fullfilling life.Please don't do anything rash until you talk to someone. Another adult will give you the security you need right now. Councelling will also help you to deal with all the turmoil in your life.Good luck to you.You are loved.

Answer 3

Go and tell the police or some official and they will either deal with your grandmother or have you put in other place. Work and if you go to college, then study. Don't suicide. Its cowardly.

I'm sure everyone in this world at one point thought of commiting suicide because life is a challenge and we have to face.

Don't run away. Think, where are you going to go and what will happen if you get into the hands of criminals and other like people who sell girls as prostitutes, you will be in bigger trouble.

Or you can just stay with your grandma if you don't want to call for help. Let her abuse you, just ignore her, she is an old hog. My grandparents even shout at my father so let her do anything as long as it is not physical because being with your grandma is the safest place to be with till you can live on your own.

Good luck and I hope you succeed and become a really successful person because people who go through hardships reach the top.

Answer 4

Suicide is not an easy way out...life will get better but some of that relys on you. Go tell a counselor at school that you are being abused. Everyone goes through hard times but the best of people always comes out when they pull through it and press on to become the best person that they can be

Answer 5

I know things can be tough. I too have had a hard life Abusive parents one was sick so she couldn't understand stabbing you with a fork was wrong. And another parent that was verbally and physically abusive . But taking your life is not an option my friend. You have to fight this. I know its not easy and there are times you ask why you are hear for all this type of pain. But it will get better you have to believe that and trust God will help you.

Be a fighter and don't give up you'll see in time you can get through this. Your strong. Don't take the easy way out. You have a great life ahead of you. and you'll never know if you give up now.

I'll say a prayer for you. and hang in there okay.

Answer 6

No, it's not an easy way out. Life sucks, it can sometimes deal you a crappy hand. But, with every hardship comes new meaning to YOUR life. I've been through alot in my 32 years. I was sexually assaulted 4 years ago and went through major depression. I came out of that experience though and so will you. Time heals everything. This month I left my husband of 10 years. Talk to a friend, a teacher anyone and tell them how you feel and what is going on. People go through this every day. You are stronger than you think you are. abhaya_kimini is my messenger if you want to talk, Im online. Hang in there sweety.. life gets better.

Answer 7

No suicide is not the best way out acually it's not really a good way out at all, life is a presious thing, God gave each and every person and thing in this universe and he loves all of his creation, maybe u need to take some time out and pray I know when I was going through crap like this I found out that it was because I was drifting away from God then I broke down in tears and prayed then my life just kinda cleared out I saw everything in a different perspective and things turned out okay,
I'm sorry if u feel like suicide is a way out when it's not.
I hope this helped change ur mind.

Answer 8

Think perhaps you need to speak with a counselor either at school or social services and inform them of what is happening in your life. Suicide is a very final option and there is no turning back. I found a man who had been dead for 3 days who rented my basement and it was awful finding him and for his family. He took the time to mark all his belongings and left three suicide notes. One for his daughter, one for his sister and one for his girlfriend. You sound like a young person who has lots of living left and so please reconsider taking your life. If necessary go to the police and inform them of how your grandmother is abusing you, perhaps they can find a safer place to house you temporarily. Good luck to you and think before you act please.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

suicide is the cowards way out .if you need help get it don't sit there on you *** and fill sorry for your self call social service to come get you and they will if you are a kid you don't need to be there,if you are being abused then fight back till you get help run out of the house screaming or just do any thing to get some attension brought to ur self,killing your self is a puss@s way out