The reason we decide someone of the opposite sex is sexy or not is because it all boils down to procreating. When we like someone who is intelligent, its because, subconsciously, we believe that he will pass the intelligence down to our offspring. This is the same reason men, most men, like women with large breasts. Because this means more nourishment for the baby. So each women decides what they want their child to have.
Most people do believe that the man outside reflects the man in. It is what media has taught us. Ugly is as ugly does.
But some, those lovely some, do go with what's inside. Intelligence, humour, etc. Whatever you do, don't get depressed and blameyour lack of a sex life on your weight. Women prefer a man who is self-confident, without being cocky, that is.
Just accept who you are and there is a woman who looks for your type, and she may be yours.
Hope that helps,
~*~Smo~*~
2006-10-17 13:44:25
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answered by Smo 4
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Its amazing what people go for, the diverseness i mean. Im eight stone wet through and i had a lovely boyfreind of eighteen stone on a slim day!!! We sometimes giggled that people thought we looked funny together, but it didnt matter. We since split but hes with a gorgeous girl now... she looks like a model! Not all girls are shallow, and just to put your mind at ease, its not all the good looking girls who are. Ive been told im stunning by loads of people (just being honest) and as long as i like the personality, he makes me laugh, and has nice eyes and a cheeky smile hes in there!!! Are we talking about you?? If we are and you have doubts, kick the ones that have a problem with it to the curb they dont deserve you.
2006-10-17 21:25:07
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answered by Jenie 2
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No gruesome human beings frequently improve rather sturdy personalities and are actual intense high quality to make up for loss of looks. Plus like a extensive share of "captivating" human beings could look as though **** devoid of makeup, hair extensions, pretend tans etc
2016-10-02 09:55:16
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answered by ? 4
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I like guys who are healthy weights...neither skinny or overweight. I usually don't care how much guys weigh. um, I like somebody because they have cool personalities or they make me laugh and I like being around them. not because of their weight
I know that some people I know immediately judge a guy if he's overweight. They either think that the guy doesn't care about himself, or he's having personally issues that would make him overeat.
I'm not saying it's fair, and I'm not agreeing, but I know people like that.
kinda sad really.
2006-10-17 13:25:20
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answered by free_the_frenchfries 4
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Depends on the guy.
A thinner dude can be dumb as rocks or a total *** or both. (so could a heavy guy)Which is not so hot. (to me anyhow) and a thin guy (or girl)can be ugly too.
Some "ugly" people are truely beautiful, so are some "pretty" people. and vise versa. Fat people can be "ugly" or "pretty" so can thin people.
2006-10-17 13:03:08
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answered by tenngurlamo 2
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I perfer a man that isn't so small and skinny... but of course.. I'm not so small and skinny myself. Do the overweight men like the bigger girls too?
2006-10-17 13:07:49
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answered by H K 2
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Most girls don't like overweight guys just like guys aren't generally attracted to overweight girls........but once you know someone, it's different :-)
2006-10-17 13:03:04
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answered by njsueb 3
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Beauty is only skin deep. But you can't expect someone to respect you, if you don't have enough respect for yourself to take care of yourself. You must love yourself b4 you can expect anyone else to.
2006-10-17 13:07:43
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answered by littleblondemohawk 6
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I like men with a bit of slack but it has to be combined with the confidence that they don't need to work out and are happy with who they are. It's all about the confidence!!!!.
2006-10-17 14:50:09
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answered by Kels3 2
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as long as you have a wicked sense of humour and a good heart thats all that should count,but in my case hes gotta have some greying hair aswell what a turn on.
2006-10-17 13:11:37
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answered by karenza2411 1
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