He claims to hate me, and he says he never wants to communicate with me again, but he stares at me and checks me out every time I can't avoid him. I now am having dreams about him, and they scare me. Yeah, they're those kind of dreams. When I see him, I swoon, but I can't bear to see him. He's cruel and has no integrity. I still think he's the most gorgeous thing I've ever laid eyes on, but it's not as if I don't have anyone else. I have guy friends, makeout buddies, and I'm one of the prettiest girls on campus. But I don't understand why I can't get over him after the crap he put me through. I want him so much, yet I get heartbroken every time I see him, even if it is just a glimpse or a partial view of his face. HELP ME!!
2006-10-17 12:50:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I cant stop dwelling on someone or something it helps me to try to help other people. Look for someone else who needs help or try working on random acts of kindness.....
or it sometimes helps for me to find a hobby for a few months.
Maybe that will help you
2006-10-17 12:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by misjes2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the guy you can't have.It's the fatal attrition thing going on it sounds like to me. He's not checking you out he can't stand you for what ever reason. You said you are one of the prettiest girls on campus was that one of the problems in the relationships your ego.Its good to have self confidence but not be vain.I would just get over him.
2006-10-17 12:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by roni_lane81981 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he hates you so much than stop checking you out. Tell him that you both need to move on and he needs to get the hell on with his life.
2006-10-17 12:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by sydney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ether dinial or he still likes you and wants u to feel bad for him and get back together he probobly was mad and broke up with u for no resond. maby uve been with him for so ling that you feel like u havent lost thos feelong for him or something love is a weard thing
2006-10-17 12:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Tekedo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries - you are a self-obsessed insecure teenager who is incapable of making rational decisions that are not clouded by your hormone-induced emotional fluctuations.
2006-10-17 12:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He stares at you because you are stalking him, If a crazy ex was always around me you're damn right I'd look at them, so I can go the other way...Move on!
2006-10-17 12:51:53 · answer #6 · answered by Dick Tater 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Work on forgiveness and unconditional love. Remember, love is a choice.
2006-10-17 12:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by Babs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wager is that your nevertheless circuitously connected to him. Your subconscious is telling you you want to enable flow, however if its now puzzling. So do what you ought to do, then mmove on.
2016-12-04 22:45:59 · answer #8 · answered by stanberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want to get back together and you miss him.don't worry if he says no im sure you are a preetty girl.
love nicole
2006-10-17 12:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by karanata 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him if he hates you dont look at you and tell him how you feel
2006-10-17 12:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by senoritaluvsthatman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋