puberty....HELP!!!?

Question

i am flat chested and i want to look more developed.......what can i do????? I am also wondering what having a period is lke and what signs to look for. I am 12......well i will be 12 in Dec. and i am in middle school most of my friend either have breasts or have had there period or have discharge. i am all alone.

i also have a padded bra and i still dont look developed!!!!............my pubic hair also has been growing.....and growing........and growing........should i cut it???????

also.......when something hits my breasts they really hurt.........i that good or bad........some little hard circular thing inside my breast id growing......is THAT goo or bad????

Answer 1

You are still young and have plenty of time to develop:) Some people just develop early! Don't worry, it will happen! However, if you don't get your period by 16 years old, you should see a gynecologist and see if there is a problem. No, don't cut your pubic hair!

Answer 2

You are just fine....for only going on 12, you have a few more years to develop. Don't worry, everyone goes through puberty at different times. Some girls don't get there period until later teens. And as far as your chest, it'll come.

In the meantime if you wish to look more developed wear a bra with a little more padding than the one you have. But be patient, you'll grow.

Don't cut your pubic hair, it'll only grow more than.
And the tenderness in your breasts is normal, you are probably starting puberty.......

Answer 3

I know exactly how you feel. I am 13 and a HALF, flat chested, and with no period or even signs of a period. You are not alone!! There are bras you can buy that help make your boobs look bigger (haha) but most of all you have to wait and be thankful you DON'T have your period! Mood swings, cramps, and bloody pants will wait for you another day!

To add on- no do not shave your pubic hair! It is extremely itchy when it grows back, and plus the hair helps to prevent vaginal viruses! Also, if your breast hurts when something hits it, that means something is developing -- quickly! Congrats!

Answer 4

Dont push it really, you will get there fast enough. But anyway, there are excercises you can do to develope, ask any guy that works out for the chest excercise. Your first period is usually very light, with small cramping in your lower stomach. Just keep a package of pads in the bathroom, cuz you should be seeing it soon. sometimes it comes out not real red the beginning. so dont get scared. It will last anywhere from 3 to 5 days and increase as you get older. Pamprin, midol are some of the cramp medicine you can get at the store. Be sure you get to the doctor after your first one. You should start seeing a gynecologist from that point and every year for check ups. Its normal, for women. I wish you well and If I can help let me know. Blessings

Answer 5

DO NOT STUFF YOUR BRA... whatever you do. If you want to look a little more developed, try wearing a padded bra. It won't work wonders, but may make you feel better about yourself. And, when you are about to get your period... I know that you can have discharge but I'm not sure because I had no signs at all. I went to the bathroom at school and it was just... there. But, if you have hair in places that you haven't before, you're closer to it than not. Ask your mom when she started hers. That should let you know about when you will get yours. But you shouldn't wish for it so much... cause when you get it you won't want it.

Answer 6

Hi Spiker, Go with what GOD gave you. I to have a flat chest and i had no trouble getting dates.Alot of guys don't care if you are small chested. They are looking for a girl that has respect for herself and likes to have fun with her friends. Your right now alittle young for dating. Just be yourself and be thankful for what you do have. Lets see now,you want to know about starting your period.Look for a lite pink discharge,and them your will starting flowing blood.Having a period isn't any fun,but it's just part of life and becoming a woman.What ever you do,don't have sex(when you get older) without some kind of protection.Your now able to carry a child,and you could get somekind of disease from your parnter.Since your going to be 12yrs.old pretty soon,i would watch for signs of your period.You will start your period,i had my at age 12 and alot of my friends did too. Good Luck Of Becoming a woman. A Friend.

Clowmy

Answer 7

At twelve I was a year on a tv show doing some fashion tips. My
makeup and costume stuck me in panelled outfits. Sort of jumpsuits,
sort of matching jacket with skirt. I got tons of complements, I am
very blonde. If you are especially dark the choice is good in blouses,
and keep the hair out in nice dews. I would say you should ask the
school nurse about what birth information they offer for ideas.

Answer 8

so im 16 now and i didnt get ny period till 15 so dont worry about it for now... about the flat chest thing just wait it will come eventually but dont stuff your bra it looks fake jsut wait and it will come, but for the period thing keep a pad around just incase in you backpack or purse for school the first one isnt very bad and after that you should start to be about to tell when you get one hopoe it helped

Answer 9

i am soooooooooo srry for u im 11 and a have a 36A bra.
try a water bra. my sister had 1 and itmade me look like i had a C cup. good luck!!!

Answer 10

dont worry all the things you said are normal. when your boobs are hurting or sore that means they are growing.
dont rush into puberty your time will come. untill then enjoy not having painful cramps