My boyfriend plays the guitar and so his neck and shoulders are alway's tense. I want to know some good ways to really make him feel good and relax his muscles. Are there certain spots on the neck that feel better to massage then others and what are good way's to get them.
2006-10-17 12:46:49 · 25 answers · asked by stinkerwits 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not the very top
more like at the corners of the back and shoulders
and a good massage is with the thumbs doin circles motionswhile the other four fingers apply pressure to the shoulders
2006-10-17 12:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-18 21:11:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never massaged a guy but i've massaged lots of girls.
Okay here's a great method for either guys or girls for starters i recommend warm almond oil it absorbs into the skin better if not that then baby oil. First start off general blood flowing moves take your hands and put your finger tips on his back act like you're slowly playing piano but without lifting the fingertips off his skin. Make your strides more circular as you go along. Once he is a bit more relaxed you can go with more broad rubs along his shoulders much like kneading a lump of pizza dough and use the piano type strokes again on his neck.
For the spine push in with your thumbs as hard as you can in circular clockwise motions.
As far as where to run on the neck start by placing your hands as if you're going to pick him up by the trapezius with your fingertips and rub gently in soft circular motions then gradually make the pressure harder and the movements faster. Also where the neck meets the back of the skull rub there with your thumbs as you did the spine but very gently (best if he has short hair).
Check out anatomical guides to acupressure as well.
2006-10-17 13:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should of shrugged him off. Tell your boyfriend, but say you feel uncomfortable with his roommate and that he came up and gave you a massage and you didnt know what to do, dont make it sound like you went along with it as you clearly did not. And dont be to harsh on the roommate if that is just his general nature. Just express your discomfort with it in a general manner and dont make it anything more than it is.
2016-03-18 21:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get some gel that gets warm whenever you rub it into someone's skin, then just have him take off his shirt and lay on his bed. Gently with your thumbs and the heels of your hands rub from the outside-in, then up to release the pressure out of their body. Rub around their shoulder blades and around their spine, it feels great and hopefully he would greatly appreciate it........ But ask for the favor in return, not that night but make him give you one the next night, and rotate like that a few nights a week.
2006-10-17 13:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, If Youre gonna try it yourself and You got no experience at it, whatever You do dont do it with Your fingers. You will be tired right at the beginning and assuming You really want to rub, it will be a heavy job for a gal. I suggest the trapezius area and with Your palms. Be ready for at least about fifteen minute session, its a long time for a beginner. Maybe some aromatic oil or such... Experience and asking the "victim" helps!
2006-10-17 12:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by Goswin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lotion,strait hands, and elbows are the ingredients for a good massage. First, spread lotion on the places that are being massaged. Second, start doing that strait hands thing. Last, when you find a hard spot, softly hit it with each elbow fastly.
2006-10-17 12:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by honeyfairy5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-24 03:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by paulene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-17 12:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by fonua275 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a massage chair
2006-10-17 12:49:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋