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ok i maybe 14 but i still would like to know this because i cant seem to get a guy that likes me just for my personality and it really bugs the hell out of me.

2006-10-17 12:26:00 · 17 answers · asked by small_funky_monkey 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Cuz they are very superficial and want to show off their girlfriends' "stuff" in order to brag about her to their friends...

Stupid, I know.

2006-10-17 12:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0 0

Okay at 14 yes guys are a bundle of raging hormones true. But have you looked at how you are presenting yourself? Are you dressing to overly sexy so that is what you are making obvious to them? There is a way to dress that is sophisticated and lets them know what is there but saves some for that special someone. Are you connecting with the guys on a deeper level....showing them that you have a mind, that you are interests and goals beyond the cute clothes and makeup. If you feel that you are then ..yeah it is just a 14 year old guy. While some guys always stay at the 14 year old lust level don't fear...as you get older so do the guys and yes some do become better at hiding that and mature.

2006-10-17 19:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by 1978 1 · 0 0

give it time.. I am a plus size woman.. I have never lacked for dates since my divorce and I date alot more often than many of my thin single friends. Why? because I am fun to be around, have a great sense of humor and an outgoing personality. I'm currently in a great relationship with a man that understand and appreciates everything about me..and adores me as I do him. 14 is just the beginning of your dating life. Give it time hun. Go for friendship first and you will find a boy or eventually a man that thinks more of whats inside than what's outside!!

2006-10-17 19:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by colluvz 2 · 0 0

Bugs the hell out of you? You sure don't talk like a 14 year old. Maybe they're attracted to that potty mouth!

2006-10-17 19:27:17 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 5 · 0 0

Not every dude pays attention only to your body. I for instance look at both. A nice girl is mostly what I look for though. Maybe you just don't know the right people.
E-mail me:
perchez_ervin@yahoo.com

2006-10-17 19:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sassafrass 2 · 0 0

Women go for a guy mostly because he is smart or funny, something to do with personality. Guys a physical creatures it's just how their minds work. It isn't too complicated.

2006-10-17 19:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well.....some people are shallow. guys at 14 are usually after that one thing! so their gonna be looking at the body. but as they get older they mature. you know girls mature faster than boys! and if a guy likes you he hopefully like you for you..not just your body.

2006-10-17 19:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by lakimbria2000 2 · 0 0

As you get older and the guys grow up and mature .. they will go after you for your personality. Give it a little time. Good Luck ! :)

2006-10-17 19:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0 0

men are jerks, i have to say, i dont have the *dream* perfect body, and frankly it is hard to get someone to notice me, im not butt ugly, but i have broad shoulders, and guys ARE visual, and they might go out with some really really pretty girl who is a complete and total ditz, but int he end they are the one with the perfect body

2006-10-17 19:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by tessg1319 1 · 0 0

they almost all do that wait till you are a little older and then they get i little more mature i have a great boy fiend how loves me for who i am

2006-10-17 19:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by aimee R 2 · 0 0

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