how do i know if my soul-mate is my best friend or no ?

Question

we've been friends for 12 years
theres NOTHING i dislike about her
we have the same interests
and i've had the longest crush on her (i cant remember how long anymore)
(atleast 5 or so years)
every other girl i've seen cant compare to her

i dont want to ruin our friendship
how do i know if we are ment to be or no ??

Answer 1

so she is your soul mate and best friend. i under stood.

Answer 2

Hello'
Well from what I understand you are stupid in love with her (don't get me wrong that is a good thing). But if you honestly want to have a serious relationship with her TALK 2 HER!!!!
Oh, and find out what her true feelings are about you. I mean you all can go out on a friendly date and talk about this.But yeah I understand you don't want to ruin your relationship with her,but you don't want to be like Brian(Off of What about Brian?, on CW). How would you feel if some other guy came along and whisked her away? Talk 2 her and C if you both are on the same page.

Answer 3

Talk to her about it, since you've been friends for so long you should be able to be open with her. Maybe set aside a time to go to dinner or something nice like that and just tell her how you feel, women appreciate when men are open about how they feel. some people say that once in the "friend zone" you can't be a couple, it's not true.

Answer 4

You don't have to be in a relationship with your soul-mate.
It sounds like this person could be!
But your soul-mate doesn't have to be your lover, wife or whatever. I believe that a soul-mate is someone whom you share a connection with that no-one else gets, no-one else understands but it is clear for all to see.
Tell this person how you feel. If what you say is true, I do not believe revealing your feelings will ruin your friendship

Answer 5

Aww. Just be honest with her and tell her how you feel about her. I'd fear it ruining my friendship also if I was in the same situation, but you've been friends for so long, so she should be understanding. Maybe she feels the same way about you, but if she doesn't, don't be hard on yourself, just enjoy the friendship the two of you share. If you do start dating, take her somewhere special..

Answer 6

Maybe its time to tell her you like her more than just friends. Invite out for dinner as a date not a friend and talk to her. The worst she will say is that she only likes you for a friend but I think you wont have to worry it sounds like the two of you fit.

Answer 7

IDIOT!

Why wait 12 years?

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I mean, for God’s Sake, don’t you little morons have homework to complete? Go to bed already!

Answer 8

you should just be straight up and let her know how you feel, if she's a true friend she would let something you feel get in the way of a true friendship. and if she was meant to be something more, things should escalate from there if she feels the same way.

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Answer 9

I cant understand why?..u would wait maybe a quarter of your life already...it makes no sense after a few months u should know ..

Answer 10

Hi Nick

Well..she may not feel the same way you do. so maybe she just wants to be friends and she's fine with that....?? you probebly need to get the message..

Answer 11

You should tottaly ask her out it sounds like she'd say yes