2006-10-17 12:07:01 · 11 answers · asked by I wonder.. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take care of the kitty.
2006-10-17 12:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. Be Honest with her always
2. Remember all birthdays and annivarsaries
3. Be romantic: buy her some flowers, candy, occasionally. Surprise with a home-cooked dinner when's shes stressed, give a message.
4. Be her friend, listen to her problems, and give objective advise, or a sympathetic shoulder to cry on.
5. Dont make promises you cant keep - if you made plans, dont back out of them, if you promised her something, give it to her
6. Communicate with her when something is bugging you about the relationship
7. Show her signs you care, you dont have to go all out with PDA, but a spontaneous hug or kiss on cheek, are little things you can do to show her you love.
8. Dont try and make her jealous using other girls, this always leads to disasters!
9. Make her a part of your life, including you social circles, involve her in other aspects of you life: ie career, friends, family etc.
10. Be yourself! You want her to like you for YOU are not what you represent.
2006-10-17 12:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, the list is extensive, but the right guy doesn't seem to think I'm demanding or anything...I want flowers for no reason, I want to hold hands and get big strong hugs often, I want to fool around often, and I want him to be around for the events that matter to me (birthday, family parties, holidays). I want him to make a big deal out of things like our anniversary and my birthday, and to treat people with kindness, I need him to be supportive of me and to make sure I know he will always back me up in public (even if he disagrees which he can tell me privately), he should be my cheerleader--cheering me on when I need it...I want him to want to spend time with me and go places together, and I want him to call me every day, even if it's only for a minute to say hi...I'm sure there's more, and I'm sure not everyone would want what I want, but there's my main list...
2006-10-17 12:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open doors, be sweet, caring, do things she wants to do, play around with her(inside jokes etc.), make sure she knows how you feel,talk to her, don't force her to do anything, pay attention to how she feels, be affectionate even in front of your friends, call her out of the blue and remind her how much you like her. Just do what comes natural, and don't go to fast.
2006-10-17 12:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of creating a big long "list" of what your bf should do, stick to the basics: love, honesty, trust. That way you won't be disappointed when he doesn't meet everything on your "list".
2006-10-17 12:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, love ur gf...show her ur love...show that u care
2) give her freedom of her own...don control too much
3) be urself...she loves u as u are...don change urself
4) understand her, eg needs
5) share with her ur happy and sad days(especially)...she'll feel that she's needed by u
6) never forget her bday....lol
7) communicate more with her
8) do activities that she likes and enjoys...4 eg, if she likes cycling, date her while cycling
9) always b there for her....ensure that ur shoulders and ears are always there for her when she needs them
2006-10-17 12:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by lyn_shi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listening..Hugging..Eye contact..Kissing and lots of it..learning about you..sending you a card..or flowers..and most of all saying I Love You Baby....
2006-10-17 12:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn´t believe me.
I swear a god , you wouldn´t believe me.
But I kind of agree with Landon.
2006-10-17 12:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by Loser Millionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do, dont get clingy. keep talking to other girls but at the same time, make it clear to the girl that she is your number one. this is coming from a true playa.
2006-10-17 12:10:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea i kinda need the same advice
2006-10-17 12:08:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋