i am a 44 year old widdow,I live for my children ,and ,I feel like i dont have a life,I feel so guilty,,,,,,
2006-10-17 12:03:43 · 4 answers · asked by owlwomen 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
No need to feel guilty. Your grandchildren are your children's responsiblity not yours. You have spend half of your life living for others already. Now is the time that you start living for yourself and do things for yourself. You deserve to have a life too. Take care of the grandchildren only if you have time. If it's hard to tell your children, try writing a letter to them expressing how you feel (don't attack them though). People respond better with letters. Wish you luck.
2006-10-17 17:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by Renee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me too, I watch 3 of my Grandkids Iv been doing it for 4 1/2 years I am so tired Of kids.. But I dont know how to quit
2006-10-17 19:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by scooterpie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go on the internet which you obviously have access to and get a date on one of the thousands of websites one can do that?
2006-10-17 19:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by Cichlid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, aren't you getting selfish!!! Widows, women in general, and ladies are SUPPOSED to live for others and not have a life--in the 1800's!!! What do you need to do?
2006-10-17 19:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋