21 years old, I look like I'm 16. I have nothing but older (30+) men trying to holla and take me out. They tell me they have plans to take me out, own restuarant etc...I'm not really into jerks with money, I mean THEY ARE REAL OLD. I'm not confrontational or out spoken. I like to avoid and ignore all situations. I'm just a friendly person who talks to everyone (not flirt). I'm trying figure out other ways to avoid this because just telling them is way to akward for me. I hate it that I'm not out spoken =( HELP ME WITH THESE OLD MEN
2006-10-17 12:00:44 · 6 answers · asked by Bebe760 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Another thing, these men think they can get into my pants because their rich...basically they are trying to buy me for a one nighter, tell me this is wrong...=\
2006-10-18 04:55:23 · update #1
It isn't that you need help figuring a way out of this, the help you need is becoming more confident and assertive. Its great that you're a friendly person, but you have to stand up for yourself or this world is going to walk all over you. Next time one of them starts bugging you, just say "Not Interested" and keep walking. You don't have to make eye contact. This is more like a statement and actually walking away like your not interested.
2006-10-17 12:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what you call old. Old men 60 on up like to flirt just for the hell of it when they see a pretty woman.
If you don't like it tell them you have a boyfriend in another town.
2006-10-17 19:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand....I am 30 now but I still look 20...they say we will like that later in life, and I do...however I don't like women my age. Don't date old men but hey....if a guy looks young give him a shot!
2006-10-17 19:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by Peter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
30??? you're only 9 years younger than them. what's the problem?
2006-10-17 19:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by The Key Master 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
30 is old?? You are not that far off little one!!!lol
2006-10-17 19:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am older man, and i am rich, i flirt all the time...its flattering and a positive gesture....so...grow up and accept reality....
2006-10-17 19:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by ronjon4u2 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋