i asked this girl in my class (whom i had a serious crush on)out on a concert...i told her that i had two tickets and didnt want to go alone .........she said she so wanted to go to the concert and even her bf wanted to go....i never knew she had a bf.......so what do i do now......should i act as a sport and give her the tickets so she can go with her bf or should i avoid talking to her and not go to the class till the concert....serious advice needed....i liked her so much that i dont what feelings i am going through rite now and what should i do.......plz help
2006-10-17 11:56:27 · 18 answers · asked by Stewe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
grow up. move on
2006-10-17 11:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by Always Right 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't cut class...you can get into a lot of trouble and it's not worth it. Choice A: give her the tickets...you can get on her good side that way, but you might end up being more of a good friend to her than a bf prospect. Choice B: tell her that you only have 2 tickets...if she doesn't want to come with you because you didn't buy a 3rd one, go with someone else [like a best friend].
If I were you, I wouldn't miss a concert [and the money I shelled out for it] because I wanted to be noble.
2006-10-17 12:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by TomServo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do not want to go to the concert without her tell her you will give her your ticket if her bf buys the other one. makes you look good and helps get some of your money back.
tell her if she does not want to go with just you that you don't want the other ticket to go to waste so you are going to ask someone else. that way her bf will have to be the one to tell her she can't go.
go to the concert by yourself and pick up a girl out front that is looking for a ticket. tell her your date could not come and you have an extra ticket if she would like to sit next to you.
stand out front of the concert and sell the tickets to get your money back.
do not buy tickets until you ask and always have a plan b just in case.
2006-10-17 12:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by handyman5218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're your tickets go and still give her the one you promised her go with her but don't make any moves stick by her for a while being her friend you know one day this guy will be out of her life and you will still be there to comfort her in her time of need she will notice what a good friend you are and in no time you two will be together just relax give it time don't push anything she will make her move in her own time and when she starts to make her move don't leave her hanging show some interest back but don't misinterpret friendly gestures as a sign of wanting a relationship learn to discern between the two.
2006-10-17 12:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give her the tickets, thats just silly, you didn't have all the information before you asked her out. She'll understand that, I wouldn't avoid her either just be up front with her. Tell her that you wanted to go with her there is no reason to be ashamed of the truth.
2006-10-17 11:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing, tell her that you didnt know she had a bf and you thought she would want to go with you. keep the tickets and take someone else. dont give them to her. if her bf wants to go tell him to go buy them. or you can sell them to her...? dont let your spirits be down because she has a bf. maybe they'll breakup one day if you still like her by then ask her out again
2006-10-17 12:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say to her, sorry, I didnt no u had a boyfriend but if you want to go with me that would be great and if not, I'm going to go and take someone I like who likes me back! On NO account let her take her boyfriend with your tickets. It will make you the guy that everyone takes advantage of ok? And if you do I'm coming over to kick ur assssss!!!!
2006-10-17 12:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by Sluttty McSluttt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok Listen...........whatever you do don't get to close to her that her boyfriend is going to get jealous. You should go with her to the concert as friends. You know, just hang out as friends and try to get to know each other. You never know, she may just fall for you instead of her boyfriend!! :)
2006-10-17 12:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you asked her out, she felt compelled to tell you about her bf. Sucks, don't it? I'm 23 and I've never been said "yes" to, so don't feel bad!
2006-10-17 11:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god its feels really good to know guys go through this stuff too, dont hurt yourself, if you know you like her tooooo much. dont go to that concert with her, if you know its going to hurt so much knowing she has a bf, dont do that, there are PLENTY more ppl who would probably want to go with you.
2006-10-17 12:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by tessg1319 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What!? Are you crazy? You take those tickets, and you go get you another date to go with you.
2006-10-17 11:58:22 · answer #11 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋