I was almost killed today in my car?

Question

I was nearly killed today. I was stopped at a traffic light waiting on it to turn. When it turned green, I proceeded straight across a 4-lane highway. Suddenly, I looked to my left and there was a large pick-up pulling a large trailor with a huge piece of equipment; like a backhoe or something barreling straight towards me, going way to fast, especially for a busy street thats lined up with businesses. This was no interstate. I went where I was going and left. Then I passed a Lowe's just past where he almost hit me and there was the truck. I called the police and reported it knowing that there's really nothing they could do except talk to him, but that's not even what's bothering me. I can't get over the fact of how CLOSE I was to being killed. I mean if I'd been going just 1mph faster or didn't look to the left and stop, I would be dead right now. I'm not exaggerating; I believe this to be true. I feel like maybe there's a reason, or that I need to talk to somebody. Is this normal?

Thank you for all of the nice words and personal stories that you shared. Even with the few answers that were only meant to be hateful, it's good to know that MOST people are caring and good. I talked to a friend this morning that was in a bad accident several years ago. She was a great help! Whether it's a blessing or a second chance or whatever, I guess it's just what I make it to be. But one thing's for sure; I do feel lucky! It's going to be difficult to chose a best answer. Thanks to all.

Answer 1

Today is a very important day - miraculous you might say. If you feel that you have been spared, I urge you to spend some time in meditation just being thankful for being alive and focus for the rest of the day on positive things (love, hope, peace, prosperity) for yourself and all of us on the planet. It's a very important day.

If you send me your email address I can send you more information.

Peace!

Answer 2

It's perfectly normal to be shaken up after such a close call. You never really worry about death when you're young. A very close call like that makes you realize how you could be at death's door any second. You will feel better. You're just shaken up right now. If you are religious, go talk to your pastor. That may help. My son had an accident one time. He is 6"6". He was not wearing his seat belt which in his case was a blessing. What made him not wear his seat belt that day? He was driving a small 1968 Chev Nova. It wrapped around a telephone pole. The engine was in the front seat of the car! As big as he is he was thrown out of that small drivers side window. With only a few scratches. And to top it off, the accident was in front of the Sheriffs Office. Now how lucky is that? I felt someone was with him that day. It took me a while to get over just how close to death he came. I pay a lot closer attention to my family ever since that dreadful day. Someone may be here one second and gone the next.

Answer 3

Life is full of close calls...and you can't let them shake you up, or you will be too afraid to leave the house.

However, it is also wise to let these things remind us that we are mortal, and one of these days we will lose the option of "doing it tomorrow"...so, if I were you, I would be sure that people I cared about knew it, and leave nothing unsaid, that you will want known if your luck plays out on you next time.

This is good advice to take no matter what the circumstances. There are always things that could be said, and kindnesses that should be acknowledged...a few years ago, my son's wife was killed in a car accident going to work one day...an ordinary day...nothing special, except she didn't make it...I was really glad that I had taken the time to talk with her a few days before, and let her know that I was glad my son married her.

I missed that chance with my parents, many years ago, and I am careful to never leave things unsaid again. If I die, I don't suppose it would bother me...but if the other person dies, then not saying things can eat at you for a long time.

Answer 4

Hey, I'm a lot like you, or well I used to be, me and my best friend both. I did the cutting the throwing the tearing everything apart. I even stole a gun to kill myself with, once i tried to run in front of a train. I would never tell my mom and the bad thing was that i hid it for soo long. I had a battle with cancer when I was 13 and my mom would always care about how much money all the treatment costed, never about the pain i was in, so instead of starting with cutting myself i would run and fall down a hill in the woods in shorts and a tank-top. And it never hurt me, it only made me feel better. I started to feel like no one loved me so i started cutting and throwing things and when i stole the gun and had the decision to shoot myself i figured out it had no bullets so that same day i heard a train a few minutes away from my house and i was going to go jump under the tracks. These tracks were actually beside a pretty busy road and it only took me two minutes to get there and the whole time i was walking i was crying and i was so ready to die, and as i went closer to the tracks a truck stopped on the side of the road and a guy who was 16 stepped out and ask me if i was okay, i had no idea that this guy knew who i was so i just kept stepping closer and closer and he kept getting closer to me asking me if i was okay then when i got really close and he figured out what i was doing he kept telling me that some one as pretty as me shouldn't do something like that. I immediatley felt his arm around me and he pulled me away from the train tracks and i just fell into his arms crying. He noticed me, when no one else did and if he wouldnt have been there i wouldnt be here to tell you that your life has so much more to it then what your going through i promise. Do you know why you want to end your life, like is there any specific reason? I mean i know you dont know me but i can promise you that there is a bigger future for you and ending your life isnt worth it. If you need me i will be here but just please try to think about things differently because thinking about it differently and talking to some one any one can help. i hope i helped.

Answer 5

It is normal. When we go through an event like that we need to let out our feelings. We need to talk, and especially be heard, and comforted. If you think this is more than you can handle seek therapy. People react to situations differently. I actually was in a bad accident, right when I got struck, I saw all my life flash before my mind. It was a weird feeling I have never experienced before. The feeling of beign near death. I got over it quickly though, and still use the same street. It passes my mind one time or another, about the accident, but I don't let it control me. I hope everything works out, and I want you be happy that you are here alive, actually beign able to talk about this.

Answer 6

You might be in shock; that happens a lot. Let it go for, say, three days, and if you still feel like this then talk to someone. But don't just try to forget it. That's not good. Remember it, but remind yourself you WEREN'T killed, you're fine, and that now at least you know there are a lot of crazy people out there on the road and you've got to be careful (not that you weren't before). If you're a girl, get something really sweet and bad-for-you to eat, put a face mask on, and sit down and watch a film. If you're a guy, same, except skip the face mask. :-)

Answer 7

Yes, it is normal to talk it out and work out the mental stress and impact. You may want to lay down and take a small nap.
I am so very glad that you are well. That moron in the truck should be more careful. I thank God that he kept an eye on you today. It is in order to offer a prayer of thanksgiving. Have a great rest of the day and God bless you again and again.
Mr. M on "almost killed."

Answer 8

Well, bless your heart! Very scary indeed. I'm glad you took the time to report the vehicle & driver when you saw it parked. The driver was probably just not paying attention--not an excuse, i know. Hopefully, after the error of his ways has been brought to his attention, he will do better in the future. We all have our distracted moments.
As for, were you saved for some greater purpose in life--Maybe , especially I say this if you've recently been thinking of checking out of this life-time, be it by death, drugs, or reclusivness. Or you could just be lucky ;)

Answer 9

Crazy isn't it? I was hit by a 18 wheeler like a 8 months ago on the freeway going about 70mph from the back and I spun around in traffic and after the spinning was over I was facing on coming traffic. I walked away without a scratch. I definitely felt like God was looking after me that day. I'm sorry to hear about your accident, if you're like me, it will affect you for a while.

Answer 10

People almost get killed all the time. But if it helps for you to think there's some meaning behind it, by all means use this as inspiration to do something more with your life. Look at it as a wake-up call that life is too short and can be taken away at any moment.