i told my best friend that i liked this guy named cody and now she likes him.everyone says to dump my friend and be with the guy because she only likes him because i do and that isn't right.i need help.what should i do.
2006-10-17 11:23:54 · 19 answers · asked by ___♥Lindsey{[I Give Up]} 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i mean she used to like some guy named derek.but now shes all over my man.and plus cody likes me better.we used to be going out and stuff until she forced him to dump me.but we might get back together
2006-10-17 11:30:52 · update #1
and i mean shes been my bff since pre-k.we tell eachother all our secrets.i know every secret shes ever had
2006-10-17 11:32:24 · update #2
You need to tell your friend the truth,your hurt that once you started liking this guy she did too!if she,s a real friend,she,ll back down from him,if she,s not,she,ll get a adittude,And that my Dear,will show you she is not a real friend and is jealous of you and she,s always will try to get what you have or want!Then dump her as friend but first talk to her and tell her just like you did here!{Give her a chance to do the right thing}Good Luck,Hollywood
2006-10-17 11:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by hollywood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl isn't you friend. Friends don't treat each other like that. Dump them both. The so called friend didn't hold a gun on Cody and force him into dumping you and going out with her. They deserve each other and you deserve better than the both of them. Think about it this way. Could Cody's best friend get you to dump Cody and then go out with him? I doubt it because you really care about Cody and want to spend time with him. Cody could have taken the same stand for you and your friendship. Stop hanging out with the so called friend and be with more kinder people and stop wanting Cody and you'll meet a nice guy who'll like only you.
2006-10-17 20:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is tough because most best friends have a pact to stay away from the others guy. If you do not have a verbal pact in most cases it is just respect for each other.
Talk to her aobut this. If she is determined to get him she is not a true friend, dump her.
2006-10-17 18:26:34 · answer #3 · answered by Nevada Pokerqueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls are like that, next time shut up who you like to anybody. To get angry doesn't make any difference she already has him. You can still be friends to show up her you really been not series or just joking to like the guy. Good luck , the life is not over yet.
2006-10-17 18:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that kinda just happened with my friends. well i think that you should talk to your friend first and see whyy bcus my friend started liking this guy and then she liked another guy so my friend who had ALREDI liked the first guy just confessed to him so you never know she could have kept it a secret from you and didnt want you to get him b4 she did. so yea or she could just be a bad friend . im not sure but i think your best desision would be to find out why she suddenly likes him now
2006-10-17 18:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She clearly isn't a friend if she only likes him because you do. Get rid of her... This will not be the last time she does this.
2006-10-17 18:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by Love_cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a very good friend. Talk to her about how you feel. If she continues to act this way, I would stop being her friend.
2006-10-17 18:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by Adri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should dump her or u should tell her that u need to get out my face because every time i tell u that i like someone u like that person so get the f*** out my face don't say f*** if u don't curse just say get to steppin.
2006-10-17 18:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is right dump your so called best friend
2006-10-17 18:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have a great friend....or tell her you like another guy so she can go after him
2006-10-17 18:26:34 · answer #10 · answered by Jayce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋