I was newly divorced, dated this man for 1 1/2 years....I went through some rough times (financial, children, etc.) and so did he....the problems led to us ending things--but without really talking about why, etc. I have missed him and would really like to see him again but don't know whether I should contact him or not. (I found out he is living about 30 minutes away from where I live). Also, I have gained weight since we were together (he was heavy and I wasn't--now I am plump-not huge, but not tiny like I was either, which is embarrassing). I really, really liked this man and the sparks were definitely there--should I write him a letter or should I just forget it completely?
2006-10-17 11:23:45 · 6 answers · asked by llewen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Write him a letter or e-mail, to see if there is any interest. If there isn't any, or he is in another relationship....leave it be, and remember the good times. Then look for the right guy. Good luck!
2006-10-17 11:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by Margo F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you still have feelings for this man, and he's not involved with anyone else, then perhaps you should try and
get in touch with him. It couldn't hurt. But if you're not sure of
his marital or relational standing, get his address and write him
a letter to find out. It certainly couldn't hurt, and you might just rekindle the flame. The best of luck to you! :-)
2006-10-17 18:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by Road Trip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just find his # if possible and give him a call...you will not be able to close this chapter in your life until you know what would have happened or didn't happen if you had not tried to reach him. The outcome will give you peace of mind! You may be very happy you did! What's to say that he is not thinking the same about you?
2006-10-17 18:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by constanceray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no harm in trying. If he's in a relationship with someone else he'll let you know. And don't worry about your weight, if he likes you for you then it won't matter.
2006-10-17 18:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not, you have nothing to lose. No matter what happens, you have a certain fulfillment once you know for sure.
Good Luck!
2006-10-17 18:28:19 · answer #5 · answered by the one who knows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he is not married, send him a letter or email and try to connect, see how it goes.
2006-10-17 18:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋