im quite new 2 the high school,but theres this girl in my class which is so mean,horrible and always embaresses me shes so cruel and hates me 4 some reason maby its because im new or shes jelous of me.Wat she does is the 1st time she said hi and all that how r u and then she was being friendly and made me laghf so i laghed it was funny she was making funny faces then its where it started she said WOT R U LAUGHFING AT ITS NOT FUNNY DONT LAUGHF ITS RUDE! i just ignored her with a face as if i diden understand wats she talkin bout she said R U A LAGHF AHOLIC i said no then she began pushing her friend on me the 1st time i acepted its alright she diden mean it ,then she done it the second time! then i knew that she was doing it on purpose i just smiled and ignored her now every time i c her she says DONT LAGHF! i wasent even laghfing! she just likes to mess with me and she said to her friends i look like 7th yr when i am 9 wat do i do! how can i make her stop shes anoyin me help advice!
2006-10-17 11:01:12 · 13 answers · asked by Emily * 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
I hate to be cliche, but join activities in afterschool. clubs, sports. make new friends. Deliberately roll your eyes in her direction and let her KNOW you think she's lame for being such a crass individual. and if she says something like "stop laughing," laugh! She's being a silly! Introduce yourself to her friends and be as nice as you can be. if she challenges you physcially, back down. Don't avoid her and all of her friends. just her. if you're talking to friends of hers and she says something, just go on without hearing her.
2006-10-17 11:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by Chit P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you either need to talk to your friend see what they would do, Is this girl a hard nut and if you are really scared i would tell a teacher but sometimes that can make it worst, I was in a situation in yr 7 like that but I told a family member and that helped me boost my confidence but i wouldnt take the step I took, because i said and what its a free country by this i knew i was into a fight but I knew i wasnt going to get into a fight where i would end up in hospital, so becarful if you do end up in a fight! wishing you all the best. try asking the person can we sort this out because i really dont like this at the moment!
2006-10-19 04:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by -MissShexiLaydee- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like the signs and indicators are all there. i think of he's shy. you are able to ask him to connect you and a few friends to work out a action picture or pass out for a drink after artwork. That way its a delightful invitation, as friends. You look intense high quality, i'm suree he's involved. purely ask him to pass out as friends, then see the place you get from there. (:
2016-10-02 09:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God, I know such silly girls. The worst thing is that you can do nothing about it cause such people or so silly that this is just stunning and make you speechless... She will grow up some day, but don't let her childish behaviour affect your good mood.
What do other people think about her? Is she popular? Has many friends?
Just avoid her.
2006-10-17 11:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by Lady G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this girl is very unsure about herself and sees your friendly laugh as a laugh at her expense. Talk to her, complement her and use her name in the conversation "Your jumpers nice Jane". She will eventually drop her hostile side and you may find you've a good friend!
2006-10-17 11:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by Avon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like bullying to me, psychological bullying not physical but bullying non the less. Talk to a parent about your concerns or if you can't talk to your favourite teacher, if you can't catch them on their own leave a note for them in their pigeon hole in the staff room. Teachers do care and will not tolerate bullying. Good Luck : )
2006-10-17 11:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by Quizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she is doing this. Say you don't appreciate it at all. Say it's hard being new and that you don't need people treating you this way. & if she says "I was only kidding" just be like, well it didn't seem like it and it hurt my feelings. If she says anything more about it, telll the guidance consoulor because she needs help
2006-10-17 11:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by Veronica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her - she's only doing it to get a reaction from you. She'll get fed up when she stops getting a reaction.
Concentrate more on your studies babe - your English needs some serious attention!
2006-10-17 11:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by Scoob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD TELL AN ADULT AT SCHOOL IF YOUR NOT HAPPY. BUT IF YOU DONT WANT TO DO THAT YET WHY NOT JUST ASK OUT RIGHT WHY IS SHE BEING HORRID. OR NEXT TIME SHE IS NASTY JUST LOOK STRAIGHT IN HER EYE WAIT FOR HER TO SHUT UP & THEN TELL HER THAT BEING A BULLY MAKES HER LOOK REALLY UGLY !!
2006-10-17 11:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by janice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
warn her that what she's doing is a form of bullying and holds disciplinary action if she is caught. then tell your form tutor or a teacher that you trust and ask her to keep an eye on you.
2006-10-17 11:12:10 · answer #10 · answered by jemma b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋