Any advice for a white guy dating a Korean girl? Its a little confusing at times. She says she doesn't feel that I like her, even though I do. Do Korean girls expect gifts all the time? etc?
2006-10-17 11:00:19 · 14 answers · asked by Mr Q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to have really good communication with her so you can ask and discuss what she expects. Remember her family is very traditional and it's going to be hard for them to accept you and that may impact her as well. It is a Korean custom to give small gifts when you visit someone's home and at other special occasions. She may be disappointed that you don't bring her something because it tells her that you don't think the time is important or special. It should be inexpensive but personal to her.
2006-10-17 11:04:10 · answer #1 · answered by RangerEsq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she was brought up in a traditional Korean household, then she should be no different than any other girl. Even if she was, that doesn't mean she expects gifts (I don't know that is a part of Korean culture).
You obviously are not communicating well with her. Do you tell her how fun she is? How pretty she is? How great she makes you feel? Are you affectionate? Do you do small things for her? Rarely does buying things for someone replace verbal or physical demonstrations of affection.
2006-10-17 11:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by aint_no_stoppin_us 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Korean girls are like all girls. Show her affection, take her out for dinner and a movie. Treat her like you would any girl. This question is a little racist in insinuating that Korean girls are somehow "different'. All people are a little different, so you have to find out what interests her.
2006-10-17 11:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 09:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you make like habit to give her gifts all the time - can be.
Korean girls are very difficult to handle they want get gifts and the expensive one are very welcome. If you break up, you don't get them back. Remember kimche and garlic and green paper, you better like very much right now. Most Korean girls want to get marry as soon as possible, and better you be financially - good. Kids are going to look like Koreans. Korean girls are fighters, and you should know how to shut up. Good luck.
2006-10-17 11:14:07 · answer #5 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty naive of you to think that just because she's Korean, she expects gifts...maybe you should take a long look at yourself. OR try giving her more compliments...maybe she's insecure. Either way, she needs to learn to become more comfortable with herself, and not rely on egotistical people like yourself.
2006-10-17 11:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A good way to get to know her is to ask her these questions.
All Korean girls aren't the same & they don't all want to same things.
2006-10-17 11:02:57 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you ask her straight out what she thinks is missing from the relationship? Explain to her that since you are unfamilar with her culture, then she has to explain to you what she wants and expects. We can guess, but since we don't know her, only she can tell you what she wants.
This video might cheer you up:
2006-10-17 11:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all girls of all races like gifts sometimes..and if you can afford it, all the time.
Don't forget to learn how to like Kim chee. I heard its a turn-on.
Well, you need to show her that you like her by showing her you do. You know, like opening the door for her, hugging her, holding her, kissing her, yada, yada....
2006-10-17 11:04:07 · answer #9 · answered by doggoneit 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
All girls expect gifts all the time, whether we're asian, white, mexican.............whatever!!
Why would you think she's different from any other girl?
2006-10-17 11:02:33 · answer #10 · answered by candy- capped 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋