This guy at works loves to piss me off, and he says things that he knows will get to me, and its not only him i have had other guys who did the same thing. what satifaction do they get from pissing me off. do they want my attention, do they know the only way to get my attention is to get me angry is that it what is it... help
2006-10-17 10:57:07 · 17 answers · asked by someday 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you want me to kick his *** ???
2006-10-17 11:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't that what friends do? Razz each other?
We do it because we genuinely care about you and only want you to be happy and get the very best from life. sometimes life throws us the very worst and we suffer. People who are our friends will razz us because they want to create an awareness for us and tell us to "wake up"... sometimes.
Try to remember that a sense of humor works well in this situation. You might want to assign a gay name like "clarence" to your friend that pisses you off each time he does something to you that pisses you off bigtime. Make sure everyone knows that clarence is up to no good whenever he is called this name. That will keep the score even.
2006-10-17 11:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people, men and women like to get a reaction from others. Don't give them any reaction and I guarantee their annoying behavior will change. We treat people how to treat us, if they can't get a negative reaction out of you, they will surely try for a positive one or show no interest at all. I would completely ignore them until they can treat you with the respect and kindness that you deserve.
2006-10-17 11:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can p*ss you off unless you decide to let them. Decide right now that your anger is on lock-down and nothing gets through your shield unless you let them.
They do this because you reward them with a few minutes of fun. You respond exactly how they want.
Next time they frustrate you, instead of responding, stare really hard at one of their ears and comment how strange it is. Stare at the same ear every time they try to wind you up and comment how strange it is every time. Give no other reaction.
They'll leave you alone within days.
2006-10-17 11:13:31 · answer #4 · answered by Cracker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its entertainment value. They know how to make you angry because you make it so easy. Youve made yourself an easy target. The only way to get it to stop is to have no reaction 'at all' to anything they say or do. Eventually, they will get bored from the lack of reaction and move on.
2006-10-17 11:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares why they are doing it. You don't have to put up with any crap at work. You should speak to you supervisor about this. If you are in a union, speak to your shop steward.
People go to work to work, not to piss off the co-workers. Get this stopped.
2006-10-17 11:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by canucklehead1951 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They like to get your attention and get a rise out of you next time just laugh your butt off and walk away and then they will get frustrated why for they didnt' get to you and you can win and drive them nuts
2006-10-17 11:00:16 · answer #7 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to ignore them
I know it's hard but It's the only way that worked for me!
or just tell them to shut up!!!
Guys are idiots and we all know that, so ignoring them kinda pisses THEM off :DDDDD
2006-10-17 11:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to me2! all they want is a reaction. ignore whatevr this person says and eventually his immature behavior will stop
2006-10-17 11:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by cutie123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If those guys pissed on you then you need to take a shower.
And report to the cops.
2006-10-21 09:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually when guys get to know girls and maybe they kinda like them they just pick on them i've seen it and i have seen it work which sucks cause i am usually the nice one that gets overlooked
2006-10-17 11:00:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋