theres this amazing girl i like. She's pretty,funny,has a great personality, and i want to ask her out but dont know how. Everyone is asking me who i like and its making me mad because if i tell them i liker her then everyone will know and ill be embarassed because she might not like me back. What if she says no when i do ask her out? i wouldnt know what to do. Please help me.
2006-10-17 10:07:37 · 15 answers · asked by misterbunnyfritz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude, i know exactly how you feel, i'm only 16, and i have that problem all the time, you should hang out with her, if shes your friend or something, if shes not, mapproach her through mutual friends, become friends, hang out in groups at first, get to know her, and let her get to know you, after you know her a little while, do some playful flirting, just kiddin around, if she responds the same way, go for it, but dont just rush into it, cause that can be a train wreck, trust me, that is a great technique
2006-10-17 10:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by krash726 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, every guy has to go through one of these situations one time or another. You pretty much have to find the right time to really go ask her and it depends how well you guys know each other. If friends, just gather up the courage and if you don't then you have to take a big step into manhood. If she says no, being friends is always an option and don't feel downgraded. It's only middle school.
2006-10-17 17:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by Shrimpy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two things i'm going to tell you:
1) Your only 13 so please understand that relationships at this age usually end semi-quickly so don't let a break-up get you down if she says no
and
2) tell her whats on your mind, no one else has got to know unless she is gonna be mean and announce you asked her out, which i dont think you would want to go out with a person like that so...
2006-10-17 17:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by nicky_8_0_8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw dont freak out so much. well first off im a 14 year old and have had several boyfriends, so i understand from the girls point of view.
first of all, yes you should ask her out because girls sholdnt have to ask GUYS out. and if she says no, then just say like, "thats cool. still wanna be friends and hang out sometime?" and maybe you could get her as a good friend and over time she may start to like you again. DONT tell everyone who you like, it IS embarassing. if you have one good friend who knows her really well, maybe you could tell him and get him to ask her about who she likes or something. goodluck!
2006-10-17 17:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm going to give you the same advice i would give my little brothers... just tell her the same thing you just told everyone... tell her she's beautiful, and funny, and you like being around her... and then just do it... yes there's a chance she might say no but if there is no risk involved than it's not worth your time... just remember that you're a catch and if she can't see that then there is someone out there that will... and when you find her treat her like a princess... but don't get too bummed out if things don't work out how you want them to... you're only 13, you got a lot of life ahead of you... so go have fun!
2006-10-17 17:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by Victoria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew a girl who was very pretty and every guy was afraid to ask her out... Unfortunately for her, no one asked her out and she was very upset.
Don't worry if she is good looking., if she has a great personality, I am sure she will say yes.
Most nice girls don't dwell on their looks, they are more interested in other things, like having fun and going out with friends.
Don't wait, go for it....
If it doesn't work out, then try someone else, but don't ever let
her looks stop you.
2006-10-17 17:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really like her that much then you should tell her how you feel about her. Dude just chill okay it's not the end of the world so you ask her. The chances are that will like you too you nothing to lose. Just be yourself b/c no matter what she shall like you for you. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-10-17 17:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by pink girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could help if you guys got to be friends first. i mean when you're going out with a girl, it's always nicer for the girl if you two are friends first, and she gets to know you. see if you really like her or not. and if and when you do ask her, do it in person.
2006-10-17 17:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by sweetestspazz24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just go wih what your heart says. If your heart says ask her out then do it before someone else gets to it.
2006-10-17 17:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
will girls are kinda shy to asks boys out and just ask her then if she says no that ust makes you avible to other girls who like you and haveing a better chance in meeting girls maybe better then her
2006-10-17 17:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋