we were together for a couple of months but were friends for seven years we used to get along well then we fell in love got together and things started to change not in the begeinning but near the middle i guess i still love him and he loves me to how can i change that without smothering him.
2006-10-17 10:03:40 · 4 answers · asked by ghettomommy06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being "in love" seems to add a lot more pressure to a relationship than just being "friends."
Talk to him about it. Try to identify the pressure points and work out a way to avoid them.
2006-10-17 10:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by johntadams3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were comfortable as friends and now the same communication has stopped because now its a relationship, and sometimes we dont know what we can or cannot say so we dont say anything at all. Now you are bickering. You need to get that friendship back. You can still remain in a relationship, but you need to have a friendship first.
2006-10-17 17:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe back off a bit, and let him take the action over.
2006-10-17 17:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by Nyki Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're in love?
2006-10-17 17:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by mixedupamazed@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋