2006-10-17 10:01:23 · 19 answers · asked by emily_noll2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would say no..
2006-10-17 10:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by avant1991 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your self a couple of Question to see if you should stay in this relationship
1. Are you happy
2. Does he make you happy
3. Do you love him
4. What would change in my relationship if I got married
5. Do I want to married to this man
6. Would this man make a good Father
7. What exactly do I want out of this relationship and how do i feel about it
If you could answer yes to all those question then I would say hang in there.
2006-10-17 17:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by makethebeatdrop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3-year rule. If there is no firm commitment by the 3-year point (engagement, marriage, whatever), then it's time to move on. If you have been together for 5 years and you are showing no signs of progress, and you aren't really getting along, then dump him and go have fun. Life is too short.
2006-10-17 17:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have answered this question for yourself... but i'll indulge you anyway.
If you aren't happy then get out of the realtionship. There is no piont staying in relationship simply out of habit - this would be the worst thing to do in the long-term. It may be safe to stay with someone you know, but when the relationship has run its natural course .... jump before it sinks like the titanic!
2006-10-17 17:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by chunkeymonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby the two of you dont need to break up things just need to change in your relationship,you might need abreak from him like go on a holiday it will rekindle things between you two also when a couple have been together for 5 years they get comfortable in the relationship and things are at a stand still,so if you love him and wanna try to make it work change the things you two do,do things you have never done,go camping,go jet skying,change your hair style change your clothes and get a new look on life and your relationship things will soon enoiugh sprice up for the better
2006-10-17 17:08:46 · answer #5 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 years and you've gotten nowhere? If he was going to commit he would have done it 4 years ago. Move on today!
2006-10-17 17:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your relationship is at a stand still, you need to find out from him where he sees it going. If hes happy with the way it is and doesnt want to 'ruin' it by a piece of paper (marriage), then you need to ask yourself if thats what your willing to accept.
2006-10-17 17:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your in your mid to late 20's, you shouldn't have a relationship that has lasted that long.
2006-10-17 17:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you mentioned this to him? Does he know you aren't going anywhere? If you have and he has said or done nothing with your concern, then I say: Don't waste anymore time. Find someone new.
2006-10-17 17:06:42 · answer #9 · answered by ValentineP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how old you are and where you both are with school, etc. If you've been together that long and are in your 20's then I'd wonder.....
2006-10-17 17:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should slowly break apart. Same thing happened to me and now
i am dating a NHL superstar!!
2006-10-17 17:03:49 · answer #11 · answered by Blaaah ! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋