love me! i have chaged for the good snice he has been gone i have lost 25 lbs and eat better and i am more in to going out now! which is good because he love doing that stuff but i didnt !! is it ok that i am scared that he might not love me?
2006-10-17 09:54:21 · 8 answers · asked by I AM ?? 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
maybe govt got him hooked on killing
2006-10-17 09:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Has he said something to you on the phone or in an e-mail that makes you think he doesn't love you anymore? If not, than it is totally irrational thinking on your part. Believe me, I have been there. My husband was over there for 15 months, and we are more in love now than when he went. Being away from someone for that long makes you want them even more. I'm sure he still loves you. Sounds like you have been making good use of your time without him. Good for you! Just be patient with him when he gets back. He will have alot of thoughts and feeling running through his head. He'll have to get used to being with you again. God Bless you and your husband.
2006-10-17 17:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down. Decide if your fears are rational, and have a logical basis or whether they are just your fears getting the better of you.
Have confidence that he will still love you, unless you have a real good reason to think otherwise.
If still in doubt talk to your priest, minister or you can go talk to someone at your local mental health clinic.
2006-10-17 17:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congrats on the weight loss!! . if anything, he will love you more when he comes home. you are becoming more healthy and starting a great hobby that he is interested in. he will love you for it. all he wants to do is be with you when he comes home. you can sort out all that later.
2006-10-18 01:16:12 · answer #4 · answered by haikuhi2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you when he left he will love you when he gets home, he has probably changed some too..everyone goes through changes. I don't think you should worry about it.
2006-10-17 17:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by Tallulah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he'll be thrilled with "the new you". You should be proud of yourself, getting in shape and changing your lifestyle. He should love it.........and you for doing it. Good luck!
2006-10-17 17:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of wives are insecure when their man is away like that.
I've been there, believe me, you're in his thoughts a lot more than he is in yours!
Hang in there!
2006-10-17 17:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u lookin for attention?
of couse he loves you.
2006-10-17 16:56:53 · answer #8 · answered by Tex-Con 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋