next month is my wedding.......but i m so nervous...i dont know how will happen in first night??plzzzzzzz guys i m expecting from u this answer........coz u know much better wat guys want?
2006-10-17 09:32:31 · 18 answers · asked by sonam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Don't worry about it at all. You'll most likely be so tired from the day's activities that you'll both go straight to bed! It's okay to be nervous, but do your best to try to relax and just enjoy it.
2006-10-17 09:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it may help to talk to your fiancee about any feelings that you have toward this subject. Whether you're really excited, nervous, unsure. Some couples actually decide ahead of time to NOT have sex on the night that they get married. After a big day of celebrating, one or both of you may be tired. And just the pressure of knowing that that's usually what happens that first night may just be too overwhelming. I think that as long as you two are connected with each other, it doesn't matter when or whether it is your first night together, it will be unforgettable.
By the way, I think it's awesome that you've saved yourself for marriage! I don't hear of too many girls/women that save themselves for marriage.
2006-10-17 14:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wedding is a very tiring event! You both will be very tired! But I think you both will want to make love, because without it, the wedding day is not complete!
Just relax and things will be OK. Your future husband will know what to do!It will be better for him because for you it is going to be the first time and you'll be a bit nervous.But don't worry...every woman is nervous the first time!Just try to enjoy it and don't think too much!
Good Luck and best wishes
2006-10-17 10:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by Ana GG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was very nervous leading up to the wedding, but on our wedding night I wasn't nervous at all. Don't worry your husband to be will be sweet and a perfect gentleman. One suggestion, start drinking cranberry juice regularly a few days before the wedding. It reduces the risk of a bladder infection. Sounds weird...I know, but it helps.
2006-10-17 10:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Pea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding girl, you're getting married, but don't know what happens on the "first night"? Read some books at least... Better yet, start practicing now. NOTHING should be happening on the first night that had not happened before.
2006-10-17 10:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you'll probably end up having sex with him, but don't worry, it's probably going to be his first time too, and you guys can figure it out together, if not, then there are many websites online that can teach you how.
2006-10-17 09:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by suniti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi sonam u no need to afraid . i hope he knows every thing .bec 87%of boys had sex before marrige .in india . its very great moment when he touch u first time .u should tell him do slowly first u will enjoy it after 2 weeks u will say do hardly and faster honey thanx good luck
2006-10-17 09:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by stranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 22:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be tried but you guys have to make love so just take a warm bath/shower with him go to bed drink a little start kissing him rubbing him and just relax everything will fall in palace just show him how much you love him and how glad you are that you and him are man and wife it will be beautiful
2006-10-17 10:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-17 10:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋