i am gothish and well my dad always wants me to follow the crowd be a prep worship pink how do i break it to him i collect living dead dolls i own a owja bord i like gohost and horro movies ??
2006-10-17 09:19:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
lol...what is a "living dead dolls"...lol How is that possible? So what is so abnormal about having a Ouija board, and liking horror movies. Don't most kids?
But, to answer your question, why tell him anything? What would be the purpose of making this declaration? Do you just need to spotlight on you for a while. Just be who you are you he will know that you like that sort of stuff. What your asking is sort of like asking how do I let my dad know that I like pizza? He'll know you like pizza by you always eating pizza. Sounds like you need a big production and lots of attention.
2006-10-17 09:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
First of all: I'm not really convinced you know all about the 'goth' subculture that you seem to think you do. Go to goth.net and read the site intro. Then: most people kind of grow into it, or have gothish tendencies all of their lives, like appreciation of history, certain kinds of music, literature, architecture, ect. You don't just pop into Hot Topic and wake up the next morning a REAL SUPER-DUPER GOTH (tm). No, it doesn't work that way, and besides, if you are goth he'd probably have realized it by now so why would you need to break it to him? Now think it over.
2006-10-17 17:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by Strange Design 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does your dad really need to know that much about you? Part of being punk is not bonding with the parentals. Just wear lots of black. He's a grown man; he should be able to figure out the rest.
2006-10-17 16:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Goth and Punk are two very different things. You aren't either of them, sorry.
You like the cool dark clothes and belonging to a group of people that doesn't belong. that's fine, but you shouldn't have to "come out" to your dad. Just be you, free of categories, and that's all that anyone can ask of you.
2006-10-17 16:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by swhertzberg 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
haha ok if he doesnt knwo already, then you must not be to goth or punk, lol. just wear what you want and dont push him away from it. he may not like it, so dont push him away and do it more if he doesnt. but let him know, take him shopping with you to get your clothes and your collectables.
2006-10-17 16:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by lpxerounderground 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Slowly, leave something out where he can see it here and there. Good luck.
2006-10-17 16:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh I'm sure he's noticed the freak in his house.
2006-10-17 16:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by Kayt 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Just tell him it is a "phase" and he will understand.
2006-10-17 16:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you don't tell him, you show him. when he sees the difference he will know.
2006-10-17 16:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by KodeNmKidzNxtDoor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your dad should able to take you as you are just because you are his daughter..... tell him straight out..........
2006-10-17 16:27:18 · answer #10 · answered by deborah_25_2005 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋