not wanting to hang out with them. I told him it makes me feel uncomfortable. now he's mad at me and our relationship is over becaude of it. I may 37 but i am trying the date thing again after 12 yrs of horrible marriage. 2 falling in love with a man that passed away of cancer to trying again. i give up !! please help me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-17 09:15:16 · 7 answers · asked by teeeeenah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We can't help you only you can do that. You're 37? You need to start acting like it. Don't date for a while. I think you need some time alone it would do wonders for you. You don't alwyas need a man to fall back on.
2006-10-17 09:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all the last guy you dated sounds like a real jerk to me. You are certainly not wrong for not wanting to hang out with his ex-girlfriends. Some may disagree with me, but it is an uncomfortable situation. I've had my experience with that in the past and it always turned out bad. But at the same time I am dating someone now, and he has a best friend who is a girl and they had dated for a very long time. I know in my heart that I can trust him with her, but it still makes me feel a little uneasy at times. It's so hard to find a good relationship and a good man. Some people are lucky in love and some are not, and even though you feel like giving up just keep trying. It sounds really corny, but if you don't take the risk you will never know. I wish you the best of luck in finding a good relationship and a good man :)
2006-10-17 09:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 21:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you are wrong for not wanting to hang out with his exs if it makes you uncomfortable. However, if he is unwilling to change, then he's probably not worth dating anymore. Be patient and eventually you will find the right the guy, and don't be afraid to let the pretenders go, even if it means being alone.
2006-10-17 09:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by luv2answer4u 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you, there is no reason to hang out with his ex's. You have been through enough you definitely don't need to be put in a situation you are not comfortable with. He's got alot of balls being mad at you for telling him how you feel. I think you should be mad at him for not caring about how you feel. There are nice guys out there, pretty few and far between but they are out there. It DOES NOT sound like he is one of them. Don't waste your time with him. Be patient you will find a good one. Good Luck.
2006-10-17 09:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by green eyed lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you did wrong was wanting to date that loser!! Good luck to you!
2006-10-17 09:19:30 · answer #6 · answered by sundragonjess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel and if he doesn't understand break up with him or either learn how to get along with his exs
2006-10-17 09:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋