Alright so i recently met this girl like 3 days ago, and i kinda led her on by accident saying she was pretty and stuff, but then when i finally met her she is not a person i would like to be with...What should i do? I didnt really mean to lead her on i never actually said i liked her or anything but she calls me sexy and everything now and i dont really like her like that. How am i suppose to tell her that without sounding like an ***, or hurting her feelings?
2006-10-17 09:06:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her bluntly I dont think things are turning out the way i thought it would. Would still like to be friends though?
2006-10-17 09:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by mcsquare3245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could just have a few phone conversations with her and make sure that you really don't have too much in common, then after a few days or a week, you can point out that it's hard to talk and try to do things when you don't have anything in common. You're still going to look sort of mean, but at least you're giving her some time.
2006-10-17 16:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by Jan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to be honest, but not too honest. Just talk to her and tell her you see her more as a good friend and that you don't feel a connection with her. You should be able to tell a girl she is pretty without her assuming you are boyfriend/girlfriend. Dont worry, its worse if you keep stringing her along and giving her false hope.
2006-10-17 16:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by BellaRia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether her feelings will be hurt or not should not be your main concern. If she discovers that you were "playing" her, she'll do one of two things. 1. She'll ditch you immediately. 2. She'll continue to call you sexy and see how long you can keep the game going. Turn the tables on her and tell her that you only want to be friends and see where that leads.
2006-10-17 16:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is sexual harrasment tell her firlst and say somthing like look I'm not really comfortoble with what your're doing. If she continues call the cops suxual harrasment is illegal well thats whats in my great body workshop at least I can't trust that thing. I'm only in 6th grade
2006-10-17 16:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by April 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell her!! I hate to burst your ego...but you only met her a few days ago so I'm sure she won't be too upset that you're not into her.
2006-10-17 16:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by aak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's only one way to do it. Quick and painful as it may be. You must be honest with her.
2006-10-17 16:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there you said it..you never told her you liked her...just stop telling her that she is pretty..soon she will get the hint
2006-10-17 16:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the we are "friends" conversation.
2006-10-17 16:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋