Can you help me?

Question

My boyfriend has changed so much since we have been together and I'm not saying that I haven't but he seems to be getting worse. We used to talk and he would make decisions like where we were going to eat but now he gets mad if I don't answer. He's quiet and he doesn't tell me anything that is happening to him. What do I need to do to help get some more life into him?

Answer 1

well i think it would be a good thing to just sit down and talk to him. Both of you need to communicate with each other a little better. I am not saying you have to tell each other everything but both ppl need to be open. Your bf sounds like he has trouble expressing hisself and you will probably need to take the lead. tell him some things about yourself like what has been worrying you or what you have been having fun doing and he will probably feel more at ease and open up as well. A guy doesn't like to open himself up to othrs without someone opening up to him. as far as decisions go you may have intimidated him so much that he is afraid of making the wrong decision even with something as simple as choosing where to eat. Sounds like you had been making decisions without knowing and he has become used to that.

Answer 2

It sounds like he needs you to be more assertive. Nothing wrong with you taking charge and making some decisions regarding your relationship. This might even get more of his attention back where it needs to be focused, and that's on you. And if he's getting mad over small things maybe it's not you.

Answer 3

I wish I could answer this, I'm going through the same thing. I feel like I'm always the last to know what's going on with my man and that's usually when I hear someone else talking about it.

Answer 4

It's not a good sign on his part. Talk to him and be honest and ask him why, you might be suprised.