Theres this shy guy i like ive known him for 18 months. As hes shy and i am also my friends say take it slow with him to get to know him. How long should i take it slow before making a move
2006-10-17 09:03:02 · 13 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Weve been working in the same office and he has recently moved to the office next door. The thing is i didnt want to make a move while still working in same office
2006-10-17 09:12:32 · update #1
I'm quite shy, but I used to be worse when I was in my teens.
There was one time when I liked this girl and she liked me, people told me she liked me and looking back it was pretty obvious to be honest, but we were both shy and so nothing came of it.
Shame that neither of us had the guts to make a move, she was a really nice girl.
2006-10-17 09:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by Gilligan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well If He Wanted Long term Relationship He Would Of Already Settled Down So Dont Be Fooled By The S*** Second Find A Person Your Own Age
2016-05-22 11:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when ever you feel ready is when the right time is, but yeah while 18 mo is too long, i give you respect for waiting until you two arent working together, it can cause all kinds of problems wether you see them now or not, but 18mo make a move if your really feeling him, makeing a move doesnt mean you have to sleep with him, hell go to the movies, hey im getting ready to leave the office and i was gonna try this new resteruant you wanna join me? shyt you may be waiting for nothing, or something may be waiting for you - good luck
2006-10-17 09:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 months is over a year. This isn't a baby you're raising heere... a 'long time' is probably 15 days.
2006-10-17 09:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he fancies a drink down the pub at Friday lunchtime, time to bite the bullet!
2006-10-17 09:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by Dark Mark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not rush it. The time will come when the both of you feel it. Remember, good things come to those who wait.
2006-10-17 09:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's been 18 months he probably doesn't think you're interested.
Ask him out now, I don't think you could go any slower.
2006-10-17 09:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh erm about 17 months ago
2006-10-17 09:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by robertboozychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about it first with him, like make a game out of it: put strips of paper with questions in a bowl and see if he will answer them.
JUGGIEJONES OUT
2006-10-17 09:07:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any slower and it's gonna be too late
2006-10-17 09:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by angiebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋