Hello Everyone, I am meeting this person, whom I have been online dating for little over 2 months. We have exchanged " I love you's" Talk for hours and hours at a time. Spoke about anything and everything. We both are mature with children of our own and seriously looking for a relationship. He is 35 and I am 28(is that a good age gap or really stretchin it or from a man's point of view - im a dream come true him, coz older men love young women). I look alot younger then 28, always mistaken as being 25. But, my question is...we are setting a date VERY soon. what is the "predate prep work"? How should I dress?, I dont want to look overpowering or someting farless to that. I want to look nice and need advice from others on what is the meaning of "predate prep work". I want our first face to face interaction be just as passionate as we are on the phone.
2006-10-17 08:58:50 · 16 answers · asked by Fairytale_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
relax and be yourself... men always like women in skirts and heels but try not to look slutty and you should be fine
2006-10-17 09:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very important to be comforatble for the date to go well. So shop for an outfit that looks nice and you are comfortable wearing. Plan the night so you have time to talk at a resturant or a bar before you get the "passionate" part. If you have spent two months talking, you should be able to wait a couple of hours before you start anything more. This gives you a chance to see what kind of vibe you get from him in person too. Good luck and remember, the date is supposed to be fun. Don't put so much pressure on yourself or him, enjoy it!!
2006-10-17 09:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... but remember your relationship shouldn't be based on your younger looks, because you will look older...while younger women are constantly present...
Relax and prepare way ahead.... and you already said it all- don't exaggerate anything... just be yourself. It will be awkward at first, but once you guys realize that this is the real person ... someone you've never met physically, but spiritually- ... it should be an awesome experience for both of you. Have your hair done (trim, style) a week in advance, so you feel comfortable with your hair.... then have your nails done. Enjoy!
A friend of mine met her partner online... they've been together for four years now. She has four kids from her former husband, but he was an alcoholic and still is- but this guy is absolutely awesome-... takes care of her kids as if they are his own.
2006-10-17 09:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath. If you want a serious relationship there has to be more to it than just passion and looks. Be yourself from the get-go; otherwise, it'll complicate things later. Dress with care, but not outside your comfort zone. You don't want to seem like someone you're not. Good Luck!
2006-10-17 09:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need confidence. Do some confidence building exercises.Maybe just go get your nails and hair done. This will not change who you are inside but will give you an air of self-confidence which he will like, if he is a real man. If you do not like this sort of thing just buy a new outfit. Keep it simple, slacks and blouse.
Don't do anything special for him, it is for you. Be who you are and be confident about that!
Take Care
2006-10-17 09:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by RJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break it to you...but I doubt seriously that you can be in love with someone you haven't even met. And if by some miracle you actually could love someone without ever meeting them...and he felt the same way then it wouldn't matter what you looked like when you met...because he already loves you...remember?
2006-10-17 09:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by aak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg that's so sad. My dad was like that to, my mom got a divorce and then everything worked out ok. But enough about me, we need to helppp her! First) Hurry and go sit ur mom/dad down and calmly tell them the sad story with sympathy. Second) beg them to let her live with you in ur house. Third) do wat ever it takes so they can say yes. Ur parents might say ''its their problem, not urs'' but dont let that get to u. Help ur friend by telling her to go back to school for u/with you. Education is super important even if its boring, but u will have to use those things every day of ur life. Help her by getting her out of that violent housee.
2016-05-22 11:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress casual, just dont put too much faith in the " brady bunch syndrome" blended families are very very tought to make work,, you cant get jealous of the other ex even when they call all the time about the kids etc.
2006-10-17 09:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've never met this person and you've exchanged I love you?
Sorry to burst your bubble, but both of you are way too immature for any kind of adult relationship.
2006-10-17 09:01:32 · answer #9 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u should wear your best outfit and put on some makeup... be yourself in front of him and like you do on the phone
2006-10-17 09:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by alexlover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋