He seems to love me sooo much, but never shows any desire to make love. Its been that way since the beginning. What can I do to get his attention?
2006-10-17 08:56:09 · 8 answers · asked by Nancy D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who knows?! Maybe he is playing hard to get... Or maybe he is the "pre-marital relations is wrong" type and is saving himself. He might be gay...
Get his attention by putting the moves on him. Don't leave it up to him to initiate! Take the reigns!
2006-10-18 07:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by Nicky G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...and to answer that previous question seriously...sometimes men find it exciting to have the female to be the aggressor. In fact for the most part we all find it exciting. I think that you can get him to be the instigator because you've said you dress up quite often as stimuli for him. So...in a subtle way...without wiggling your behind or anything as brazen as wiggle your money maker at him but the occasional bending slightly over with just a hint of extra leg showing or cleavage may have the desired results you're looking for. Of course you may end up on the kitchen floor instead of the bedroom but hey...spontaneity is the spice of life right?
2006-10-17 09:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably out of respect for you. Jump him or talk to him about it. if he still rejects you then let him go. but think of it this way he is with you and you know he isn't lusting over you or you Would have had him in the sack along time ago.
2006-10-17 09:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by Que 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know of a few guys that have girlfriends, but will not make love to her, and here are two of the reasons why. one: he is holding out for marriage= yes guys do that too, or two= he is gay, and you are his way of hiding the truth. so why not just come out and ask him why he has made no attempt to make love to you. that's the best way of finding out. by asking!!
2006-10-17 09:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this situation as well. Sadly, there is nothing you can do about it..its either his sex drive is low, or he is not interested in the physical side of your relationship. It could be becuase he is battling insecurity within himself, if you would like an answer to this situation, I would ask him myself. Go ask!
2006-10-17 08:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by ladyophelia7777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lie on the bed open your legs and play wit your pussy in front of him if he doesn't jump on you then your bf is gay and that means he wants a man not a woman.
2006-10-17 09:01:00 · answer #6 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use porn babe if he rejects porn try to find out if he has a boyfreind
2006-10-17 08:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by spyro_gyro1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
swallow
2006-10-17 08:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋