Should I ask her Out?

Question

One of my friends just broke up with his hot ex- girlfriend because he thought she was flirting with me too much.
And I really like this girl, but she said he was upset when she dumped him because he thought I'd ask her out that minute.
I really like her, (and she obviously likes me, Because she has flirted with me so much).
What would be the right thing to do???

He's not a great friend to though, only one that if like I see him I'll say hi.

Answer 1

If you like the girl I don't see any problem w/asking her out. It sounds like a good idea to me. Don't worry about your friend. He'll get over it.

Answer 2

Ask your buddy, and remind her of the male saying: BROS BEFORE HOES. If he's not ok with it, forget the hoe.

Additionally, you should consult the guide on HOW TO BE A REAL MAN with your friend.

1. If a buddy is already singing along to a song in the car, you may not join him.
2. Under no circumstances may two guys share an umbrella.
3. Any man who brings a camera to a bachelor party may be legally killed and eaten by his fellow attendees.
4. When you are queried by a buddy's wife, girlfriend, mother, father, priest, shrink, dentist, accountant, or dog walker, you need not -- and should not -- provide any useful information whatsoever as to his whereabouts. You are permitted to deny his very existence.
5. Unless he murdered someone in your immediate family, you must bail a friend out of jail within 12 hours.
6. You may exaggerate any anecdote told in a bar by 50 percent without recrimination. Beyond that, anyone within earshot is allowed to call out, "Bullshit!" (Exception: When trying to pick up a girl, the allowable exaggeration rate rises to 400 percent).
7. If you've known a guy for more than 24 hours, his sister is off-limits. Forever.
8. The minimum amount of time you have to wait for another guy who's running late is 5 minutes. For a girl, you are required to wait 10 minutes for every increment of hotness she scores on the classic "1-to-10" Babe Scale.
9. Complaining about the brand of free beer in a buddy's refrigerator is forbidden. You may, however, gripe if its temperature is unsuitable.
10. No man is ever required to buy a birthday present for another man. In fact, even remembering a friend's birthday is strictly optional and slightly gay.
11. Agreeing to distract the ugly friend of a hot babe that your buddy is trying to hook up with is your legal duty. Should you get carried away with your good deed and end up having sex with the beast, your pal is forbidden to speak of it, even at your bachelor party.
12. Before dating a buddy's "ex", you are required to ask his permission. He, in return, is required to grant it.
13. Women who claim they "love to watch sports" must be regarded as spies until they demonstrate a knowledge of the game and the ability to pick a buffalo wing clean.
14. If a guy's zipper is down, that's his problem. You didn't see nothin'.
15. The universal compensation for buddies who help you move is beer.
16. A man must never own a cat or even like his girlfriend's cat.
17. When stumbling upon other guys watching a sports event, you may always ask the score of the game in progress, but you may never ask who's playing.
18. When your girlfriend/wife expresses a desire to fix her whiny friend up with your pal, you may give her the go-ahead only if you'll be able to warn your buddy and give him time to prepare the excuse about joining the priesthood.

Answer 3

Stay friends with her.If you start going out with her so soon after her recent break-up,it's not going to look good on either of you.
You really need to look at why she was flirting so much.Maybe she does like you,but was she only doing it to make her ex jealous?
Take your time,i'm sure your friend wants to continue being your pal.
Look some where,not so close to home.

Answer 4

well, I need more info to decide whether you should date her or not.. because for me, I always avoid dating/having a relationship with my close friend's exes... But if she is an ex of your normal friend/'hi' friend.. you have to date her if your heart says so...

Answer 5

Depends on how close of friends you and this guy are. If you guys are really tight, then no. If you guys only speak when you run into each other, I say why not go for it.

Answer 6

Sometimes it is and sometimes it isn't. Some friends say well if you date her then you aren't my true friend and in some cases that's true. BUT if it is yall's destiny to be together there is nothing you can do about it........... So I'd say take the chance best of luck to you and let me know how it goes........... God bless..........Jacqueline

Answer 7

don't break your friendship over a girl....it's not worth it ...there is a lot of fish in the sea why does it have to be this one...that's called "betrayal"...that's a no. no

Answer 8

Go for it. Do what makes you happy. =]

Good Luck.

Answer 9

Go ahead ask her out!!!!!!!!